Be with someone who makes your Mondays feel like Fridays.
You know that Friday feeling? Pure joy and excitement?
In society, we are taught to look forward to the weekend for rest and amusement; a break from the draining mundane. We often tell ourselves, “Don’t worry, the weekend is just around the corner”. If we look forward to a day of the week that much, shouldn't we wait to share our lives with someone that makes us feel the same way? Why do we simply accept people who leave us with the same dread as waking up on a Monday morning?
When you finally find your Friday, you’ll know it. You’ll know when you realize the sound of their voice feels like home. Or when you see them and you suddenly get the same feeling of anticipation as when you see your food coming at a restaurant. You’ll know it when you step back and try to count your ridiculous amount of inside jokes, only to find there are too many and you just can’t keep track of them all. Or when you find yourself communicating with only facial expressions and laughter. That feeling of pure joy and excitement is imbedded in the way they are included in some of your favorite memories, and you can’t imagine a future without them. Like days on a calendar, your Friday will sneak up on you when you least expect it. And like every weekend you will find yourself always looking forward to your time with them. Like every Friday, you know they will always be there.
They are much different from a Monday or a Wednesday. They won’t weigh you down or exhaust you. They will lift your spirits even higher than you thought your spirit could go. Fridays love each and every flaw that mark your body or stain your heart. Fridays support your goals and dreams, while Mondays make a joke out of your wants or desires. Mondays suck and everybody knows it.
So please, I’m begging you, darling, wait for your Friday. Don’t ever settle for a Tuesday, a mediocre Wednesday, or even a Thursday. Because who knows, your Friday may be right around the corner.
