Our first instinct when meeting someone is judging them right away. Judging the way a person looks, their clothing or the flaws we might see. They say you shouldn't judge a book by its cover. We shouldn't judge people either by the first look either. There is so much more to people than just the way they look.

We often choose who we hang out with based on looks and sometimes we just hang out with a person because we want something from them. Or we hang out with a person because we are attracted by the way they look or we would be socially acceptable. Looks always shouldn't matter when hanging out with people. We all are designated to look a certain way but we shouldn't hold it against people.

You can judge people all you want but judging the way a person might look shouldn't be your top priority. Telling a person their flaws to there face shouldn't be a priority either. Some people or all people know they have flaws and some are better hiding it than others are. Some people flaws might be shown more than others but it shouldn't be a focal point and talked about all the time.

A person's personality holds more than a look ever does. If you keep judging people by the way they look, you're going to miss out on some incredible people. The way a person looks shouldn't determine how cool or lame they are and it shouldn't determine the factor of socializing with them. Just like we focus on the content that books hold, we should focus on the content that people hold rather than holding a person's look against them. If you do want to make judging a priority than judge people by there personality. It's all about what's inside and not many people can explain what is going on with them.

Just like you don't judge a book by its cover you shouldn't judge a person at first sight. You never know what is going on in someone's life. You never know what is occurring in someone's life and you never know what chapter you're going be apart of in someone's life. You might be apart of someone's book or you might not. There will always be a missing piece to everyone. Everyone is designated to have a imperfection and to be completely honest all these imperfections of people is what makes all of us perfect.

Rather than being mean to people or not even talking to them try to smile and maybe you can make someone's day. Careless acts of kindness can really change someone's life and make someone's day. Rather than judging, at first sight, try a small act of kindness that can go a long way. You never know what small acts of kindness can do for people and you never know when you might need a little kindness from people.