In life young women and older women tend to put their attention on other things than themselves and we tend to lose our focus on what is really important, which is our own well-being. Take the time out of your day to focus on you.

You never really know you're lost till one night the boy you "love" leaves you and you find yourself questioning your worth. You put so much of your power, time, and existence into someone who loved you but left you that you cannot even recognize that the relationship drained you so much that you can't even breath. This is when you realize you lost yourself.

After you beg and plead and question your worth, do you really feel any better about yourself? No, I've been there and it hurts and it sucks. Stop begging, stop assuming, and STOP forgetting who you are. Ladies, we can not let love well more like toxic love ruin us. You were put on this earth to shine and make an impact, not to sob over some boy who can't even look at you because he is ashamed of what he has done.

So now this is when you work on yourself for YOURSELF, not anyone else. Find your happy place, yes it takes time to be happy like you were before everything came crashing down. But think about it this way, who were you before you met him or before bad things happened, and then think of how you can be happy again. It is possible to be happy again just believe it can happen. Go have fun and love yourself.