Recently when reading a horoscope, it got me thinking and, of course, I couldn’t help but read into the fallacy of trying to listen to it. So.. here I am about to make a solid yet perplexed argument (not about my own personal life, just in general) in matters of the heart.
Anyways as you can guess, the horoscope read something about taking matters of the heart into your own hands and so without further a due…
Fellas… IF YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED, DO NOT ENTERTAIN IT. Basically, for lack of better words, either be about it or be without it. Us girls have to stop pouring so much of ourselves into boys who do not care - or seem to not care anyways - about our well-being. We need to stop allowing ourselves to have relationships that are walking a fragile line.
One day, guys will understand that they actually can’t have their cake and eat it too. And so boys.. In the nicest, sincerest way possible.. SCREW YOU. Stop trying to get the attention of a mind and heart you have no interest in loving. Stop initiating things you have no intent of finishing and stop playing with someone else’s emotions because you’re unsure of your own. Basically, stop being a f**kboy.
“The biggest coward of a man is to awaken the love of a woman without the intention of loving her.”
Stop hooking up with someone you know has feelings for you and then being surprised when they tell you how they actually feel. There is nothing assuring about mind games. In fact, it’s pretty immature. Stop toggling with people’s feelings and let them move on to someone who is actually going to share the same genuine feelings for them. Do not push her away and then try to rope her back in. It’s puerile and quite frankly selfish. Let that person off the emotional rollercoaster at your heartbreak carnival.
Love is not selfish and love is not proud. Be the kind of person that knows when it's time to let go so you can avoid hurting someone else because you have enough pride to put your pompous ways on the back burner. Give them the space and time to find happiness with someone else if you know it won’t be with you.
Stop liking and commenting on her photographs, stop texting her, stop snap-chatting her, and definitely stop asking about her. If you cared enough about how she was, you wouldn’t have put yourself in the predicament of having to ask someone else in the first place. And so I say to you ladies, fall in love - not in line because we deserve more, and we deserve better.
