We've all been there -- the awkward first couple of days living with other people who you don't know all too well. You begin to realize that sharing a 'home' with these people can be challenging. Whether its keeping your dorm/apartment clean or having to shower while someone is in the bathroom we have all experienced the awkward struggle of getting used to sharing things you once never had to. Many times people talk about "Roomate Rules" and tend to only talk about boundaries of your bedroom. Those are of course necessary, but I've always wondered, "What about bathroom rules?" Here at Longwood, first year students typically have to share a bathroom with three or more other people! Luckily, I only have three, but it did take some getting used to. Here is what I've learned so far about sharing a bathroom and respecting my roommate and suite mates:
1. Please don't take forever in the bathroom.
Everyone has to share. If one person is say doing their makeup or brushing their teeth for what feels like forever and another roommate has to pee, maybe you need to re-think your 'getting ready' schedule. It does suck, but now that we are in college, one does not get the luxury of taking up the bathroom for 30 minutes or more.
2. If you gotta go, you gotta go.
Do not get mad if you are doing something at the sink or in the shower and a roommate walks in to use the toilet. Sometimes, it just can't wait. Personal space isn't really a thing anymore.
3. DO NOT leave hair in the sink, shower, or floor.
This is mostly for girls (maybe some guys if y'all rock the long hair). Just clean up your hair. Nothing is more gross than getting in the shower and seeing a nasty clump of hair in the drain.
4. Clean up after yourself.
If you get water everywhere, wipe it up. If you drop makeup and it gets all over the floor, clean it up. If you pee on the toilet seat, you're nasty and need to take a hygiene class. Also, clean it up.
5. FEBREEZE
This doesn't need much explanation.
6. Don't be a mooch.
I never realized this would be a problem until I got here, but if your roommate/suite mate whoever provides toilet paper, soap, wipes, cotton swabs, etc. DON'T USE IT ALL. Also, it is polite to ask and thank the person who provides it before you use it.
7. Set up a cleaning schedule.
One weekend can be one room's turn to clean, the next can be the other's. Make sure you keep it clean, its common courtesy. Your mom isn't here to clean up after you.
8. Be respectful.
Try to be as respectful as possible and communicate with everyone you are sharing a bathroom. It takes some getting used to, but if everyone is cool about it, it'll be a smooth year.
