This is a message to all the people and things–including my parents, sibling, boyfriend, and familiar hometown–that I left back at home when I moved into college and started this new chapter of my life.

I want to start with my family, because, after all, they are the most important part of my life.

To my parents: I am sure that being away from the people and home I grew up with has been the hardest thing about this change, especially when it comes to my parents, who I have spent every single day with for 18 years. There are so many obstacles to overcome, and not having them here to help guide me is extremely difficult. Even though they aren’t physically here, they still support me and they give me the best love and advice I could ever ask for. I thank God every day for my amazing parents, all they have done for me, and all they will continue to do.

Next, to my brother: I can’t believe I’m admitting this, but I actually miss our sibling fights and annoying each other to no end. I know you don’t know it and it doesn’t really seem like it, but you’ve helped me so much through this entire process. You give me the motivation to try my hardest at everything I do, because I want to be a good role model for you, and for you to be able to look up to me. I hope that I’ve been able to achieve that goal.

Finally, to my boyfriend: A lot of people ask why me why I would still be dating my boyfriend when I left for college. I always reply that I thought he was worth it and I stand by that now. Since I've been with you for so long, it’s certainly been hard to leave for college. However, even though we are miles away, we’ve made it work. I know that it will just make our relationship stronger over time. As long as we both continue to try and do what we’ve done for the past two years, it’ll be perfectly fine.

This transition over the last few weeks has been challenging, but all of you make it so much easier and completely worth it, even after the two hour drives back and forth. I love having such an incredible family and hometown that I can come home to. I have something to look forward to every weekend. I appreciate everyone who has supported me and encouraged me.

I was always told growing up that we are all meant for bigger and better things, and I have the desire to go and do those things. However, I think everyone should stay connected to where they came from because those places are what made us who we are.

I never want to forget where I came from and all the people there, no matter where I go in life.