Slut shaming...
“An unfortunate phenomenon in which people degrade or mock a woman because she enjoys having sex, has sex a lot or may even just be rumored to participate in sexual activity." -- Urban Dictionary
The majority of people calling women "sluts" are other women. This has got to stop. I am done being frustrated with girls who call other girls "whores, sluts, hoes or tramps." I'll admit, I have had my fair share of calling girls these names, but when I finally grew up and realized this is wrong...I freaking stopped...
Don't be like this chick above. Ever.
The reason men think it's "OK" or acceptable to call women sluts is because they've heard other girls say the same thing. The thing is, girls slut shame other girls because they are most likely jealous of these girls who are having sex. Cut that crap out. By girls calling other girls sluts, it makes it seem like it's OK for men to call women sluts, which is never OK to do. As the wise Tina Fey once said in "Mean Girls":
I want women to know that it's OK for girls to partake in multiple sexual relationships without feeling like they are a "hoe." There are so many names that people call women who have sex -- slut, whore, hoe, skank, tramp, thot, etc. But when a man has sex it's seen as a "player" and "the man." I'm sorry, but what the heck? I'll admit that I am angry!
There is nothing I hate more than when women who slut shame other females. For such a large social issue, it doesn't seem right for a woman to partake in such awful activity that women all over the world are trying to fight against. Nobody wants to be called a slut, so why would you call one of your kind such a harsh name?
Hey, I'm all for "SNL," but don't ever say this! But I just want to lay out some straight facts and some straight wisdom.
You are a woman.
You are allowed to have sex.
You are allowed to not want to have sex.
You are allowed to have as much as sex as you want.
You are allowed to have as little sex as you want.
You are allowed to have zero to an infinite number of sexual partners.
Help your fellow females out, and stop slut shaming!
If you hear somebody calling women "sluts" or any other fucking rude ass name, then go ahead and link them this article. Maybe they can stop hating on their own gender for a minute and grow a brain!
