Dear Women of America,
The inauguration happened. We can’t deny that. We can’t live a life hoping that it won’t actually come to pass anymore. It did. The question I keep finding myself thinking is: now what? Now what do I, as an American woman who did not vote for this president do in relation to my opposing beliefs with the man who is now at the top seat in our government?
I wish I could tell you that I had the all the answers. Or even just one answer that would bring unity to our country, and stop the hurting. But I don’t. I’m just as confused as you are. I don’t understand the person that was chosen to lead, and I don’t believe that I ever will. I did not vote this way, the outcome of the election left a bitter taste in my mouth. I would be lying to you if I said I didn’t cry. I did. I cried tears of fear and tears of sadness. My heart broke.
The last few months have been tough. The next four years, I imagine, will also be hard. My heart is heavy for those who remain in fear. However, I am still full of hope for our nation. Our leadership does not reflect my beliefs or values, but there are still people who make up this country who do.
Women of America, I think that now is still our time to speak out on our beliefs. Protest something that you find wrong. Write to your public officials, and educate yourselves on what is going on in the world. Especially when it scares you, be informed. Information is our strongest ally. Now is not our time to stop reaching for what we want or speaking out against injustices done to us or those around us. Support each other.
With doing these things, I also encourage you to listen. Listen to the people around you who have opposing viewpoints. Do not listen for the sake of starting an argument- listen with the intent to understand another person. Every person has the right to their beliefs and opinions. Stretch yourself and see what other people are thinking and feeling. And on the same side of that, educate those same people on your beliefs. Conversation can be a great weapon when used correctly.
Lastly, to the women who feel this president does not value our sex, our bodies, or our brains. Remember this: no matter what has been done or said about your body, it is still yours. It belongs to you and nobody else. You are beautiful. You are loved. You are valued. No election will ever change that.
