College is inching close to some of us and others are getting an apartment with your friends. In high school you are told rooming with your best friend is a bad idea. (They’re not kidding) Well I hate to break it to you, but college is the same way.
You would think in college the people you meet are mature enough to talk through differences, compromise, and go with the flow. There will always be that one person you meet who can’t manage any of those tasks, no matter how old they are. Your only option of dealing with them is rising above.
When dealing with these people you learn to be the bigger person, it’s never easy, but it shows the type of person you are. You’re willing to listen and remain humble through it all (odds are you have amazing parents, who taught you well). Remember you can’t make everyone happy no matter how hard you try.
Being stuck in the middle sucks, but never forget the type of person you are/have become. Remember to always stand your ground, and don’t fall behind listening to others. If you’re not happy in any type of relationship and the situation hasn’t gotten better, leave. You also have to remember to make yourself happy before you can make others happy. You will find friends who cherish your opinion, push you to be better, and that love you unconditionally.
