An Open Letter To The Home Wreckers

An Open Letter To The Home Wreckers

Do us all a favor and leave the guys with girlfriends alone.

Most girls have experienced this at some point in their lives. You get a boyfriend, and you're so happy together, and then the home wrecker comes into the picture. The home wrecker can be an ex-girlfriend, a girl you don't even know, or even a "snake in the grass," such as a friend or family member. They start with something simple such as a text, message on Facebook or Instagram, likes on photos, or Snapchats. Then they weasel their way into the relationship as much as possible. They will try to cause problems, and even break up the relationship, usually for their personal revenge or benefit.

So, home wreckers, this is for you. First off, you are ruining your reputation. Girls talk, and I can promise you that if you break up one relationship, every girl will find out and run from you like you have the plague. No one wants that untrustworthy drama in their lives, except maybe you.

Secondly, karma is a b****. You go around messaging guys with girlfriends, thinking nothing of how it will ruin their relationship and never considering that the same thing could happen to you one day. That would really suck if you finally grow up and get a boyfriend and then you meet, you. Lastly, what you're doing is very disrespectful, mainly to the girlfriend. You cause trust issues, arguments, all which is unnecessary. I don't care if you're asking for some old clothes back, casually sending them a Snapchat that you posted on your story, or whatever your excuse is, it's wrong. You are disrespecting a girl you probably don't even know and messing with a guy that she cares about greatly. You may think that messaging your ex or your "best friend" is justified, but if he has a girlfriend, it is just off limits. Put yourself in their shoes: would you want some random girl, especially an ex, messaging your boyfriend? No, probably not. So just don't do it.

Thankfully, some of us have boyfriends who don't let these home wreckers ruin our relationships. However, the disrespect is still there, even if the relationship is strong enough to withstand your drama.

So home wreckers, save yourself the wrath of a crazy girlfriend, and the ruination of your reputation with all girls, and just leave the guys with girlfriends alone.

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An Open Letter To My Boyfriend's Mom

A simple thank you is not enough.

Your son and I have been dating a while now and I just wanted to thank you for everything.

Wow, where do I start? Ever since the day your son brought me into your home you have shown me nothing but kindness. I have not one negative thought about you and I am truly thankful for that. I first and foremost want to thank you for welcoming me with open arms. There are horror stories of mothers resenting their son's girlfriends and I am blessed there is no resentment or harsh feelings.

Thank you for treating me like one of your children, with so much love but knowing exactly when to tease me.

Thank you for sticking up for me when your son teases me, even though I know it’s all in good fun it's always comforting knowing you have someone by your side.

Thank you for raising a man who respects women and knows how to take responsibility of mistakes and not a boy who is immature and doesn’t take responsibility.

Thank you for always including me in family affairs, I may not be blood family but you do everything you can to make sure I feel like I am.

Thank you for letting me make memories with your family.

There is nothing I value more in this world then memories with friends and family and I am thankful you want and are willing to include me in yours. I have so much to thank you for my thoughts keep running together.

The most important thing I have to thank you for is for trusting me with your son. I know how precious and valuable he is and I won't break his heart. I will do everything I can to make him happy. This means more than you could ever imagine and I promise I will never break your trust.

The second most important thing I must thank you for is for accepting me for who I am. Never have you ever wished I looked like another girl or acted like another girl. You simply love and care for me and that’s all I could ever ask. Every person in this world is a unique different person and understanding that means a lot.

The third most important thing I must thank you is teaching me how to one day in the future treat a potential girlfriend that I may interact with as a mother. I am not a mother, but I one day plan to be. If I ever have a son it is because of how you treated me that I am able to be a humble loving mother to this new face that could one day walk into my door. How you have treated me has taught me how I should one day be in the future and I thank you for that.

This may seem all over the place but that’s how my brain gets when I try and thank you for everything you have done for me. It’s all so much and even the little things are so important so I promise my scattered thoughts are all with good intentions and not meant to bombard you. I just want to get the idea across to you that you are important and special to me and everything you do does not go unnoticed.


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To The Girl Who Is Moving On, You're Going To Be More Than Fine

I know what kind of girl you are.

To the girl moving on,

You are absolutely amazing! Do you know that? Do you know how hard it is to piece your heart together after someone broke it into a million pieces? I sure as hell do.

I know what it's like to get so wrapped up in someone else's life you forget about your own. I know what its like to have someone make you feel like you are constantly not enough, and I definitely know the type of girl you are. You're the girl that loves too hard because you choose to see the best in everything and in everyone. You care way too much about people that don't care at all about you. You give everyone the benefit of the doubt and you're too trusting, BUT that's what makes you such a special human being.

But that doesn't make it okay for other people to treat you badly, or make you feel unworthy. It's not okay for people to walk over you just because you're a good person. And I think after he walked away you learned that. You learned that you don't need someone to be someone. You learned that your worthy and deserving. You learned that some people that come into your life aren't always there to stay, but that doesn't mean that they didn't teach you something about life. And it certainly doesn't mean, that you'll never find love again.

You used to be so focused on what his goals were and making him happy. Did you ever think about how happy you would be if you focused on yourself? I know you have because the girl you were with him was a girl that was not even reaching half of her potential, and sadly, you knew that all along.

Now, you're the girl that is reaching for stars not thinking twice about turning back. You have best friends who truly love you and would do anything for you. You have stepped out of your comfort zone and made new friends, new experiences, and new opportunities for yourself.You ARE NOT the same person you were with him, YOU ARE BETTER. You are finally starting to figure out who you are supposed to be, and it is an amazing feeling. I'm sorry that it had to take someone to break your heart for you to realize what you truly deserve.

But oh Honey, YOU ARE A BADASS, and this time, baby, you'll be bulletproof.

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