Just in case no one has ever told you: you are amazing, you are wonderful, you are one of a kind. I am sure people have told you these things before, they've told you this to make you feel special. But let me tell you, you really are special.
There is no one else in this world that is like you. You're one of the best things that could possibly walk into someone's life. You have so much to offer other people, so much to give. You have a love so pure and beautiful to offer to others, you're just waiting for that right person to come into your life. That one person who is head over heels in love with you that they make you feel safe when you're with them. When you're with them, vulnerability just goes away because you trust them.
You deserve this kind of love. You love to be cared for, you deserve to be respected, you deserve peace of mind. You deserve to be cared for and passionately loved by another person. But especially you deserve to find that one person that would never hurt you. They are so aware of their actions that they would do anything to prevent hurting you. This is because of the mutual respect you have for each other, you would also not do anything to hurt them.
You also don't have to worry when you're with them, because you know they would never cheat on you. You don't have to wonder where they are or who they are with because they openly tell you. This is because the world has its own way of karma, that life sorts itself out. This is because when the ones we love do things to deceive us, like lie and sneak around, they become to know that they do not deserve the love we give them. There will always be someone else out there, contrary to the lies we tell ourselves, that they're the best we can get. Remember that there are seven billion other people out there for you, and I'm sure there is one person out there that will give you the love you deserve. Be the one person that you'll know is the right one to spend the rest of your life with. You just have to be strong enough to stand up for yourself and know what is best for you. Know your self worth, and don't ever think that you're not good enough.
Don't ever think that heartbreak is supposed to make you miserable. It's here to teach you a lesson, and it's the world's way of helping you figure out that it wasn't right and wasn't meant to be. I know that heart break hurts, it really freaking hurts. Although it seems like your world is crumbling around you, try to smile, try to move on, try to let go. You'll get over the pain of heart break, you're only human and you'll move past all of it.
Just remember that pushing yourself towards these people that are wrong for you is just keeping you from finding that one person that is right for you. You don't deserve to feel the pain of heartbreak, you don't deserve to be crying those tears. But you allow yourself to feel that way because you think that the person that you're with is going to change into the person you want them to be. That they will magically change their ways and be that person that you're meant to be with.
You need to understand that there are so many things in this world that are out of your control. Things will happen that you have no say about. You can only control the things that you yourself do. You can't force people to do things that they don't want to do. People will make mistakes, people will screw up. You can't control the things that other people think. You need to understand that the people that genuinely and truly love you will choose to do things that will not hurt you.
Just remember that the people that walk out of your life are meant to. Just be happy that you were able to let go of someone you once loved, that didn't give you the love you deserved, Be happy that you were able to walk away to find the one person that will make you happiest.
