So, our parents are married. That means we both have two things in common. We both come from a "divorced" home, and your parent loves my parent.

I want you to know that I will never replace you. This is not a competition for attention. I love your parent and they are very close to my heart. However, I will promise you to never ever try and "replace" you. You see, you were in your parent's life long before I was. However, that doesn't make me any less capable of loving your parent as my own.

This whole step sibling dynamic is kinda weird right? I mean, you and I don't talk every day. But I still consider you a part of my family. When people ask if I am an only child, I often hesitate and then say yes, only to quickly add, but I do have step siblings.

You have every right to feel protective of your parent, just as I do. They are an amazing person, and you got blessed in the parent department.

Our family is far from perfect. It's definitely got its quirks. For now, we will just have to work through them.

I want you to know that when you are ready, I will be here with open arms. We can pursue this slowly. I know it's a lot to take on. Please know I have no anger or jealousy in my heart towards you.

I am not saying we have to be best friends. But I am saying I will route for you, and your success in this life. As I said before, I will never turn my back on you. No matter what. We can only be as close as you allow us to be.

Until that time comes, I will be your silent cheerleader, and little "sister". We may not be related by blood, but that doesn't mean a thing. It's not about how long you have known someone. It's about the quality of the person they are, not the quainty of time you have tied up in them.

Much love.