When I first heard about you, I didn't like you. I didn't even like the idea of you. There were hundreds of reasons, but really, it all boiled down to just one: she was mine first. We had grown up together, been through the same childhood drama together, suffered through time outs together, and sure, we fought like mortal enemies and probably didn't communicate as well as we could have, but she was still my sister. I made you up to be some terrible person that had brainwashed my sister into liking you. Facebook stalking proved you weren't as terrible as I had imagined, but l still sent my sister all the worst possible pictures of you so she would know what she was getting herself into. I was skeptical that anyone could be as great as she said you were. I mean, she didn't even like you at first! So, imagine my horror when she brought you home and I actually thought you were funny and kind and absolutely perfect for her.
As time passed, I began to like you more. You would help me set up my computer, program my phone, and buy me dinner. You were patient with my colorful family, and your eyes sparkled at my sister. You truly cared for her, and I could see that. Upon your engagement and ensuing marriage, I was over the moon for the both of you. You made her so happy that I couldn't help but be excited about it. I helped craft for the reception, went to dress fittings, gave the maid-of-honor toast, and proudly told the world. But I never said what I should have said to you.
So, thank you. Thank you for making my sister as happy as she is every day. Thank you for surprising her with little things and indulging her in all of her of her passions. Thank you for supporting her dreams and standing by her in every decision she makes. Thank you for loving her in a way no one else can, and for never letting her go. Thank you for being silly with her and giving her laughter in the hard times. Thank you for being of strong faith and a rock for her to cling to. Thank you for taking care of her (because we all know she can be a handful), and for making sure that she takes care of herself. Thank you for making her feel special, and celebrating her daily.
And though I still get angry when I hear about an argument between the two of you, or something she's upset about, I know that you're the best person for her.
Welcome to the family!
