An Open Letter To My Mom

An Open Letter To My Mom

Because everyone knows moms don't get nearly enough credit.
Daylen Bills
Daylen Bills Dec 20, 2016
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"A mother is she who can take the place of all others, but whose place nobody else can take."

This is going to be hard to put into words without getting a little teary-eyed, even though you say I have a cold heart and never get emotional. The older I get, the more I am starting to realize how important a mother is to her child. Even though I don't live at home anymore, my mom is the first person I call when I need encouragement, when I need to know how to cook something, or I just need to vent. Here's to you, mom.

Dear Mom,

Thank you. Thank you for giving me life. Thank you for letting me make a pallet in your room when the weather got bad. Thank you for telling me that I am not wearing that short dress. Thank you for cooking me dinner when I come home, and breakfast for my birthday. Thank you for making sure I have always had everything I need and then some. Thank you for introducing me to Jesus. Thank you for being the only person who can find mysterious missing objects. Thank you for waking up far past your bedtime to answer a text from me, even if it is just to tell me that I need to go to sleep and don't worry about whatever problem I may be having. Thank you for not being a total helicopter mom so that I could learn how to do things on my own. Thank you for all the "life lessons" and letting me make mistakes and suffer the consequences. Thank you for being MY sunshine during a storm. Thank you for helping to mold me into the person I am today. When I was younger, I wanted to be just like Selena Gomez. Now that I am old enough to appreciate the awesome person that you are, I strive to become more like you. And that is something I am very proud to say.

I'm sorry. I want to apologize for thinking bad thoughts about you when you had to discipline me. I would have never thought that even though all my friends gave you the "Meanest Mom Award," that I would end up being a person that I am glad to be now because of it. I am sorry for all the times that I made bad decisions, ones that made you say, "I did not raise my daughter to act like this." I know that raising a teenage daughter is not the easiest thing to do, but we both survived and didn't actually kill each other. I am sorry for not appreciating you and everything you do much sooner. I say I am sorry, but I know that you forgive me, because that's what Jesus would do.

I admire you so much. I admire you for being the most selfless person I know, and for always putting everyone else before yourself. I admire you because you are so dang funny (and everyone tells me I act just like you). I admire you for putting up with dad's crap. I admire you for being able to be two hours away from me and still be able to make me feel better about any situation. I admire you because you never fail to amaze me. You are the person who is there for everybody and willing to help with anything, even if you know the favor wouldn't be returned if the situation was reversed. I love that about you, and I am starting to see how you have instilled that in me. I admire the lessons that you teach me that nobody else can. No professor could ever teach a student the things that a mother teaches her daughter. Thanks again, mom.

I love you more. I know that I don't say it much, but that is only because you always say that it shouldn't be overused. And I want you to know that I don't need assurance that you love me everyday, because I already know that you do. You have been my biggest fan since forever, and I am so grateful for that. I love your laugh, and even when you dance in the middle of Wal-Mart. I love you for constantly encouraging me to do better, because without your encouragement I would have never achieved as much. I love you because you are my best friend. I know that you always say your mom is not supposed to be your "bestie," but I think there comes a time when your kids are old enough that you can be their friend. I love you even though you listen to 80's music and never ever have a plan for anything. I love you for being you, because without you there wouldn't be me.

I know that not everyone is blessed with a mom as great as mine. God takes some people's moms away from them, and they have to learn to do without their mom. Whether your mom is in heaven or earth, she still holds a piece of your heart. I know some mothers don't even deserve the title of "mommy," but I thank God that he decided to make my mom mine, because she strives to be more like the Lord every day, sets a good example for others, and is a leader and not a follower. I may hate you at times, but I love you all the time.

Sincerely,

Your Baby Girl/Sunshine :)

Daylen Bills
Daylen Bills Dec 20, 2016
At Mississippi State University

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Growing up, there's been one consistent man I can always count on, my father. In any aspect of my life, my dad has always been there, showing me unconditional love and respect every day. No matter what, I know that my dad will always be the most important man in my life for many reasons.

1. He has always been there.

Literally. From the day I was born until today, I have never not been able to count on my dad to be there for me, uplift me and be the best dad he can be.

2. He learned to adapt and suffer through girly trends to make me happy.

I'm sure when my dad was younger and pictured his future, he didn't think about the Barbie pretend pageants, dressing up as a princess, perfecting my pigtails and enduring other countless girly events. My dad never turned me down when I wanted to play a game, no matter what and was always willing to help me pick out cute outfits and do my hair before preschool.

3. He sends the cutest texts.

Random text messages since I have gotten my own cell phone have always come my way from my dad. Those randoms "I love you so much" and "I am so proud of you" never fail to make me smile, and I can always count on my dad for an adorable text message when I'm feeling down.

4. He taught me how to be brave.

When I needed to learn how to swim, he threw me in the pool. When I needed to learn how to ride a bike, he went alongside me and made sure I didn't fall too badly. When I needed to learn how to drive, he was there next to me, making sure I didn't crash.

5. He encourages me to best the best I can be.

My dad sees the best in me, no matter how much I fail. He's always there to support me and turn my failures into successes. He can sit on the phone with me for hours, talking future career stuff and listening to me lay out my future plans and goals. He wants the absolute best for me, and no is never an option, he is always willing to do whatever it takes to get me where I need to be.

6. He gets sentimental way too often, but it's cute.

Whether you're sitting down at the kitchen table, reminiscing about your childhood, or that one song comes on that your dad insists you will dance to together on your wedding day, your dad's emotions often come out in the cutest possible way, forever reminding you how loved you are.


7. He supports you, emotionally and financially.

Need to vent about a guy in your life that isn't treating you well? My dad is there. Need some extra cash to help fund spring break? He's there for that, too.

8. He shows me how I should be treated.

Yes, my dad treats me like a princess, and I don't expect every guy I meet to wait on me hand and foot, but I do expect respect, and that's exactly what my dad showed I deserve. From the way he loves, admires, and respects me, he shows me that there are guys out there who will one day come along and treat me like that. My dad always advises me to not put up with less than I deserve and assures me that the right guy will come along one day.

For these reasons and more, my dad will forever be my No. 1 man. I love you!

Sydney Kofron
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7 Life Lessons My Parents Taught Me

Your parents have been there from the start, and have no doubt shaped you into the person you are today

Elvira Makk Frid
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I'm so grateful for everything that my parents have done for me. Even more so, I'm incredibly grateful for all of the life lessons over the years. At this point, they've taught me way too many life lessons to list here. However, I thought I'd take the time to write down seven of the most important ones!

1. Be Respectful. 

If there is one thing my dad has instilled in me from a young age, it's to always be respectful. I have always been impressed with my dad's ability to stay cool and calm in situations where that's the last thing anyone would expect from him, and he has taught me the importance of maintaining a respectful and mature attitude, even when life gives you the sourest lemons.

2. Be bold. 

My mom is the coolest woman I know, and she has always taken on life the only way she knows how: with unbelievable boldness and fierceness. Being bold means not being afraid to be different or to stand out, and my mom has taught me how badass it is to be the true version of yourself.

3. Be forgiving. 

Arguments and fights are unavoidable parts of life, and ever since I was little, my dad has consistently reminded me of how important it is to pick your battles. Knowing when it's time to pick up the pieces and move on is essential in order to be a forgiving person, not only to yourself but to others as well.

4. Be generous.

Growing up, I was fortunate enough to be spoiled by my parents. Not only was I lucky enough to go on vacations and get beautiful gifts around my birthday and holidays, but I was especially lucky enough to be spoiled by my parent's love and kindness. Being generous, not only financially, but with your ability to love and respect other people is something I am so thankful my parents have taught me.

5. Work hard. 

Both my mom and dad are incredibly hard-working people. Growing up, there were times where my dad worked 12-hour days, and my mom juggled work, household chores, and taking care of me. Even though their hard work resulted in some sacrifices, they always did what was best for my sister and I. My parents have naturally pushed me to be a hardworking person in all aspects of my life, and I think it's a very admirable quality.

6. Be kind.

My dad is the type of person who will always stop in an intersection to give money to a homeless person, and my mom is the type of woman to never think twice about sacrificing her own needs to help others. Both my parents have shown me, along with the rest of the world, what it means to be kind and selfless, and I can only hope I will one day be as good at it as they are.

7. Stand up for yourself. 

Before I came to college, I often found myself doing what everyone else wanted me to do. I jumped into things quickly, hoping it would please others and make them like me. However, once I got to college, I quickly called my mom on the phone, crying because I regretted some decisions I had made. My mom told me how important it is to stand up for yourself, learn to say no, and only do the things you really want to do. Learning to live your life for you, and not let other people rule your universe is key to being happy, and I'm fortunate that my mom helped me realize this.

Elvira Makk Frid
Elvira Makk Frid Apr 22, 2019
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