Dearest sister,
I want to start off this letter by saying thanks. Thank you for standing by me through every stage of my life, the annoying 5-year-old, the awkward 12-year-old, the bratty 16-year-old. You were always there to help me with whatever life dramas I was currently confronting, what with your older and wiser knowledge, and I regrettably never made the effort to express my sincere gratitude. Thank you for always having an answer to everything and, even though you often sounded like a know-it-all, you were always right.
I also want to say thanks for being such an important role model. Thank you for showing me what it’s like to be a loving wife, amazing mother, dutiful daughter, and a faithful friend while simultaneously being an incredible sister. You have set a high standard that inspires me to be better.
I also aim to possess your sense of empathy and acceptance of others, something with which I have always struggled. You were always the kinder, friendlier, and all around the sweeter sister, which has challenged me to better my sensitive side, which I know is thanks to you. In short, sister, you truly taught me how to love.
Next, I want to say sorry. I’m sorry for the many times I know that I ruined your social life. I’m sure there were many parties and other activities missed in high school thanks to me, your needy baby sister. I showed up during your most important teenage years and forced you to share our mother, whom I seemingly needed more.
You have always put me first and had my back, supporting me in all of my numerous endeavors. But more than the deep, sensitive stuff, you have also taught me to be an adventurer. You’re fearless, brave, and often times reckless; and this side of you is my favorite.
My earliest and fondest memories are with you. You were my first friend, and you have taught and continue to teach me so much. Although we now live many miles apart, I know you’re just a phone call away, selflessly ready to hear the latest news in my life before even thinking about what’s going on in yours.
Sister, I just want you to know that you mean the world to me. You’re always there for a good laugh, a good cry, or just a meaningless conversation, but it all matters just the same to me.
I love you.
Sincerely,
Your Little Sis
