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To The One Who Always Loves More

It sucks to always feel like you give 100 percent and others give 50 percent.

Miranda Piccolino
Jul 12, 2016
Slippery Rock University of Pennsylvania
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To The One Who Always Loves More
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In all of your relationships, you feel that you are the one who loves the other person more. You see yourself as the one who gives 100 percent while everyone else fails to even hit 75 percent. This isn't the best case scenario, but you have to make do with what you have. You have to see that it's better for you this way.

Often times, you probably find yourself stuck in the middle of your brain and your heart. It's okay to choose your heart. You don't want to feel the pain of a heartbreak and the best option would be to do what i It sucks to think that you care more than someone else, but I guess it happens. You can't help how other people feel, and it's just not worth it to be mad over.

Do what makes you happy. Don't listen to anyone who doesn't have the right intentions for your happiness. You probably hear "be done with him/her" or "he/she's not worth it", but you know they're worth it to you. I've always hated hearing people say that someone isn't worth it, especially if they're worth it to me.

One day, you'll find someone who will love you more than to could've ever hoped for. You'll meet someone who wants you for you and wouldn't change you a bit. That someone will love that you always give your all in relationships and friendships.

It's hard to hold back on loving someone. You can't stop yourself from seeing the beauty in everything that they do. As much as you may hate it, too much love isn't necessarily a bad thing. As you grow older, I'm sure you'll be proud that you love with your whole heart.

Being on the opposite side of this would mean that you'd be the one who didn't try. We've all been there too. It's sad to see relationships slipping away when you know it's your fault. You know that you're the one in the wrong but you can't help it. I'd much rather be the one that tries too hard than the one who doesn't try at all.

I am also one of those people who always loves more. You can't help how you feel. I've accepted that I'd rather be the one who loves more than the one who doesn't feel anything at all.

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