This Unsure Feeling You Have Won't Last Forever

This Unsure Feeling You Have Won't Last Forever

Faith & trust is all you need.

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So how are you feeling right now? Some of you might be comfortable where you are right now, some of you might be feeling very unwell, and the rest of you have absolutely no idea. I'm here to tell you that feeling you have is perfectly normal. There is absolutely nothing wrong with feeling uncertain.

If you're not sure where to head to next, that is perfectly okay. It was this time last year where I was completely unsure how things were going to go within the next couple of months. I was confused, sad, disappointed, and anxious to follow into the next steps. I realized that this was not something that I was going to feel for the rest of my life. This mindset that I had at the time inspired me to do more instead of always asking myself the same questions. Even two years ago when I had absolutely no idea where I was going to be, I ended up graduating college on time.

Something that I was a tad worried about considering that I came into my undergrad as a transfer and not all of my credits came through. My goal was to finish within a year, and that is EXACTLY what happened. The same with what I am currently doing right now. Currently, I am an assistant at a business development center. This position has taught me more things about myself rather than just the clients that come in. It was something that I was not expecting, but it happened at the rarest time. So how exactly did all of these things come about when I least expected it? The answer to that is by one meaning…faith. See without it, I would not sit here and say that I would be in this current position that I am in.

Without faith, I would not be able to sit here and be proud of how far I've come to where I want to end up. So with this, I can honestly tell you, it is the answer to many things. When you feel that things are never going to let up based on who you are around, just remember that the spot that you are in is not going to last forever. The spot that you are in is not going to be permanent. Trust me when I say this because it is exactly where I was and where I still am. When you get anxious about something, you often want to know the answer so bad that you will literally lose sleep over knowing what will come next. There are certain things that I want to do right this second, but I know that it won't happen overnight.

I want to be able to have access to so much right now. But that can't just happen in three seconds. By realizing that things take time at the right time, it will get you to where you need to be. By believing that you're going to get to a better spot than where you are now is going to take much faith and prayers. Believing in these two can do so much that you won't even realize. It might be complicated at first to wait a while, but regardless it just means that there is something that it out there for you that is even better. By believing that you can trust him, it just means that you're putting more faith in yourself than ever.

The more faith and positivity the better. By believing that things will work out for the better, it just means that things are going to start heading in the right direction when you least expect it. By not expecting the unexpected means things are going to go just right. So by prayer, faith, and trust, it is going to lead you to places that you would never expect to go. Believe me, I'm still following this myself.

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A list Of 15 Inspiring Words That Mean So Much

A single word can mean a lot.
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Positivity is so important in life. A lot of times we always go to quotes for empowerment but I have realized that just one word can be just as powerful. Here is a list of inspiring words.

1. Worthy

Realizing your self-worth is important. Self-worth can really make or break a persons personality. Always know that you are worthy of respect. And also, never compare yourself to others.

2. Courage

Be courageous in life. Life has so many opportunities so do not be scared to grasp any opportunity that comes your way. You have the ability to do anything you have your heart and mind set to do, even the things that frighten you.

3. Enough

When you are feeling down and feeling that nothing you do is ever good enough, know that you are more than enough. And yes there is always room for improvement but when it comes to my self-worth I always have to remind myself that I am enough.

4. Blessed

Be thankful. A lot of times we forget how blessed we are. We focus so much on stress and the bad things that are going on in our lives that we tend to forget all of the beautiful things we have in life.

5. Focus

Focus on your goals, focus on positive things, and focus on the ones you love. Do not focus on things that will keep you from not reaching your goals and people that do not have good intentions for your life.

6. Laugh

Laughing is one of the best forms of medicine. Life is truly better with laughter.

7. Warrior

Through the good and the bad you are a warrior. Be strong, soldier.

8. Seek

Seek new things. Allow yourself to grow in life. Do not just be stuck.

9. Faith

During the bad times, no matter the circumstances, have faith that everything will be all right.

10. Live

Start living because life is honestly way too short. Live life the way you want to live. Do not let anyone try to control you.

11. Enjoy

Enjoy everything that life has to offer. Enjoy even the littlest of things because, as I said before, life is short. And plus, there is no time to live life with regrets.

12. Believe

Believe in yourself and never stop. Believing in yourself brings so many blessings and opportunities in your life.

13. Serendipity

A lot of times we look for things to fill an empty void that we have. Usually what we are looking for comes when we are not looking at all. Your serendipity will come.

14. Create

Share your ideas with the world. Creativity brings change to your life. However you chose to use your creativity do not be scared to show your intelligence, talent, and passion.

15. Love

The world is already full of so much hate, so love unconditionally with all your heart.

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My Experience Getting The Nexplanon Implant

Why I got this form of birth control and what you need to know if you are considering it.

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There are many different reasons for a woman to be on birth control; whether it is to prevent pregnancy, regulate periods or clear acne, each woman uses birth control for different outcomes. Although there are many opinions surrounding birth control, it is an important subject for women to be educated on in order for them to individually make the best decision for their health and lifestyle.

There are many different forms of birth control, both hormonal and non-hormonal, including the everyday oral pills, the IUD, the patch, the implant, the ring and many more. The most common hormonal contraceptives include the hormones estrogen and progestin, or a combination of both, and each hormonal combination can affect every woman in a different way, so as a disclaimer, my birth control experience will most likely differ from every other woman's.

I have been through a rollercoaster of side effects, emotions, and changeS for more than two years due to being on and off of birth control pills. Finding the right combination that reaped the side effects I could handle was difficult. I was on an estrogen-only pill for most of my freshman year of college which cleared my face, did not effect my weight and had good physical benefits for my anemia. Although I couldn't complain about the physical side effects, I decided to stop using this form of birth control due to the anxiety it caused.

Many women struggle with a change in mentality because of birth control hormones and although it can be manageable, there are so many other options and combination of hormones that can allow for a happier mental state. After months of research and conversations with my gynecologist, I decided to go on Nexplanon, which is a small hormonal implant that lasts up to three years.

The main reasons I chose the Nexplanon implant were how it would affect my anemia and mental state, as well as the reliability of not having to worry about taking a pill the same time every day. This decision was not made lightly because Nexplanon is not a form of birth control that I can stop taking or remove easily since it is surgically placed beneath the skin. Nexplanon contains the etonogestrel hormone which, because of its location, releases a low dose into the bloodstream over the course of three years.

The side effects concerning menstrual cycles vary from no bleeding at all to light spotting and even to heavy bleeding. Every woman who receives the implant has a different chemical balance in her body, therefore a doctor cannot accurately predict the patterns and side effects that will occur within a recipient of Nexplanon.

The insertion procedure involved my doctor marking the area where the implant would be placed, sterilizing the location, numbing the area with an injection and inserting the implant with its corresponding applicator. The only painful part of the procedure was the numbing injection, which could be compared to a bee sting lasting five seconds and after that, there was no feeling in my arm. The implant was placed in my non-dominant arm due to the bruising and pain that would be experienced during the healing process. The day of the insertion, I experienced the most pain due to the discomfort of the bruising and sensitivity of the area, but every day after that, my arm recuperated very quickly.

Overall, I made the right decision for my mind and body by choosing to get the Nexplanon implant. If you are experiencing any mental or physical side effects that you do not favor, talk to your gynecologist in order to discuss changing your birth control method, or if you are considering starting birth control for the first time, do your research and make sure you make the right decision for you.

Every woman will experience different side effects on the same forms of birth control, so make sure to never judge a method on reviews because your body could react differently. Birth control is not a subject to shy away from due to the benefits it yields on young women, especially in college, and starting or switching birth controls for the safety and happiness of your lifestyle is always an option to consider.

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