Google Maps tells me that I live approximately 461 miles away from my hometown. And you know what? I'm kinda happy about that.
No, I'm not happy because it's far from my family or because I'm running away from anything. I'm happy because of everything that living far from home has taught me over my three-years at my university:
1. Cherish your friendships.
My friends are essentially my family. They have seen me at so many high points in life but also so many low points. They know what I'm allergic to and what my food orders are for specific restaurants. They are there to share the biggest laughs and the biggest cries. You'll miss the friends you left at home but get to love your new ones also.
2. Appreciate your parents.
Mom can't do your laundry anymore. Dad can't change that squeak in the door for you. Living far from home shows you how much your parents actually spent on keeping everything running smoothly and how much they sacrificed. All the food they bought and all of the time they spent with their children. For some, the struggle for parents was a little more than others but that shouldn't make us appreciate our parents any less.
3. Being OK with change
Living 400 miles away or across the country makes you more adaptable than you thought you ever could be. Learning to adapt to new surroundings and new routines in life. You'll change familiar grocery stores and churches, being pushed out of your comfort zone. But it's OK. It's all OK. Change has to come eventually and no better time than for it to come during college.
So dear parents, thank you for all you do and how much you sacrifice for us. And remember, it's OK to let us change and grow up, too.
