9 Ways To Spice Up Your Sex Life If You're Stuck In A Rut
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9 Ways To Spice Up Your Sex Life If You're Stuck In A Rut

8. Tell him what you like.

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9 Ways To Spice Up Your Sex Life If You're Stuck In A Rut
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Okay, we’re all adults here. And adults have sex. I know it’s a touchy subject for some, but everyone does it, so let’s get over it. Sex is an amazing, incredible thing. As 20-something's, we should always be down to try new things, especially in bed.

Here are nine things to try out in bed with your partner:

1. Talk dirty.

Step out of your comfort zone, homegirl. If you’re shy and don’t really know how to start talking dirty to your partner, start with just saying one word. Just go with how you feel in the moment. If it feels good, let him know. Nothing’s better than knowing your partner is enjoying themselves. I know it can be kinda scary but you gotta get over your fears. Plus, what's the worst that could happen? Try one of these:

- That feels so good baby

- Mmm... you taste amazing

- What do you feel like doing to me?

- Where do you want to cum?

- Ugh, don't stop

- You can have me any way you want me

- I’m getting close baby


2. Switch up positions.

Sex should never be boring. Get out of your comfortable grandma missionary position and throw that ass in a circle for daddy.

Nah, but seriously, there are so many positions to choose from. Here’s a few to try:

- Lay on your back and put your legs over his shoulders. This helps target your g-spot.

- Get on top. Ride that D. Change his life.

- Get on your hands and knees, throw your hips up, put your head and arms on the bed. This gives him control on how deep to go, he’ll love that.

- Face him and straddle him, then have him stand up. Hang on tight!

- Have him sit on the edge of the bed or in a chair, face him while sitting on his lap.


3. Foreplay.

It’s like the most important part of sex, tbh.

You gotta gas each other up a little bit before you go at it. Start by making out, then start moving your hands all over him. Let him follow your lead. Make his day, suck his dick without asking.


4. Touch yourself.

Sometimes he just can’t get you there and you need a little help, nothing’s wrong with that! Feel yourself, grab your tits, and rub your clit. He’ll think it’s hot AF and you’ll cum, it’s a win-win.


5. Shocker.

We've all heard of it, two in the pink, one in the stink. It sounds like it would hurt, but it's actually pretty great, especially when you're about to cum. If you're feeling brave, say something beforehand, or in the moment just say "put your finger in my ass." He might hesitate at first, but it'll be fine. Do it, I dare you.


6. Eye contact.

Especially during a blow-job, and especially during sex. It's such a turn-on for him, and you get to read the expression on his face while you're blowing his mind. What's better than that?


7. Dress-up.

Get your ass to Victoria’s Secret and try on sexy lingerie. Find something you feel absolutely confident in and surprise your man when he comes home from work by waiting in bed wearing lingerie & heels.


8. Tell him what you like.

Be open with your partner about what you like/want them to do. Most of the time guys are complete boneheads when it comes to reading girls, so don’t expect him to know what you’re thinking, cause odds are he doesn’t. You have to speak up about what you like and don’t like, how else do you expect him to please you?


9. Anal.

It’s really not that bad, girls. And it'll make your dude's life, literally. Make sure you have some lube handy, and maybe some Vodka.

Step out of your sex comfort zone and try these 9 tips to spice up your sex life, and remember to always be confident in what you're doing.

Sex is incredible, so go do the damn thing and blow your man’s mind.

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