You would think it would be easy. You would think everyone knows how to do it.
Here is the brutal truth of being in college: You learn that people can be really, really mean.
Since I, too, was once an angsty young teen, I feel like I can give you some tips on how to just be a kind person. It’s just easier.
Plus, I love these people pictured and want to make sure they're feeling good about themselves today.
“I love your hair like that.”
Not only are you saying you’ve noticed how they’ve done their hair, but you are letting them know it looks good.
“You are so good at that.”
Acknowledging someone’s strengths is probably one of the best things you can do. It has nothing to do with appearance and has everything to do with their skills.
“Your sense of humor is the best.”
Being funny is easily one of the biggest compliments. If you ask anyone what they look for in who they surround themselves with, they will probably say humorous.
“Tell me more about that.”
Asking for more information on something that a person is passionate about shows them you care about what they have to say. Everyone wants to feel important! And it never hurts to be more informed about what's going on in the world.
“You have great taste in music.”
Music is something very personal. It feels good to know that other people feel the same way you do. Plus, it means you can drive in the car with them for long periods of time without being tortured with the aux cord.
“When are you free next?”
Initiate a day where you can hang out can make someone feel loved. Even if it’s just watching a new series on Netflix, letting them know you want to spend time with them might make their whole week.
"You are so smart! That's a great idea!"
People work hard when it comes to brains. It's not easy to get good grades, have interesting conversations, or even just know the difference between "there,""they're," and "their." Letting someone know that they have important things to say benefits everyone!
“I love your style.”
Style is a lot like music. It is so different from person to person. Complimenting what a person is wearing is one thing, but pointing out their style is how you make them know you pay attention.
So, there you are! How to be nice to people with eight different examples. Start by giving one compliment a day, but make your goal three per day. It’s free, easy, and quick – and you can change someone’s life.
