Every now and then we could all use a little reassurance in our faith... especially for us girls. Things don't seem to go the way we want them to. We don't get the grade we were hoping for, we're rejected, we don't see our worth, and the list goes on. In the end, it is important to remember that God is on our side, and He is always looking for us. He is with us through the good and the bad, the easy and the hard, and the straightforward and confusing/complicated times. Whether you find yourself needing a reminder of His love now, or maybe in the future, here are 7 things that God wants every girl to know:
1. I want to be a woman who trusts that God has a plan, even when I don't understand.
I think it's safe to say that a lot of us don't have a plan, and even those who do, find themselves straying off the path every now and then. Sometimes it's hard to understand why things don't work out. We ask questions like 'why aren't I good enough?' or 'why isn't this working out?' In the end, we need to remember that God's plan is greater than our own, and will take to places we never thought possible.
2. Jesus Christ knows the worst about you. Nonetheless, He is the one who loves you most.
As girls, we tend to remember everything, or at least everything that is important to us. When we feel like we mess up and hurt someone, the guilt can stay with us for a long time. It always seems to stay in the back of our minds and every night reminds us of things that cause us to beat ourselves up. It is important to remember that you can't hide anything from God. He knows what is going to happen before we do. He knows the mistakes we are going to make, but He is forgiving and loves you unconditionally (mistakes and all)!
3. "I didn't ask you to be her. I asked you to be you." -God
We all do it. We compare ourselves to other girls. We wonder why we don't have her hair, her skills and talents, her body, her life, etc. It's an endless cycle. You were created in the likeness and image of God. You're beautiful. You are 100% you, and no one else can be you no matter how hard they try. Smile, laugh, be determined, and most importantly, be you!
4. Consider the fact that maybe God closed that door because He knew you were worth so much more.
For some reason we love to measure our worth by the validation of other people. We only acknowledge our beauty when someone tells us we look good and we are the most confident we will ever be when someone gives us a compliment. When God says no, all it means is something better is on the way. It could be a better job opportunity, a better man, a true friendship, etc. Don't force things.
5. "Never abandon prayer, even when it seems pointless to pray." -Pope Francis
It's no secret that girls love to talk. We share everything with our best friends. They are the one who help us when we're stuck and assist us when it comes to making tough decisions. But sometimes there are things that we just can't say out loud, or even know how to say out loud. That is where prayer comes in. You don't have to know the words because God knows what is in your heart. He knows exactly what you need to say, and He is always listening. Whenever you're having a hard time, take a second and say a prayer.
6. We never once, and never will, walk alone.
Sometimes it feels like the world is against us. Maybe a friend is upset with you or you had a fight with someone you're close with. It can leave you feeling alone, but remember you are never alone. God is there every step of the way. Put your faith in Him. He is always there to listen and always there to help. So, next time you feel like it's you verses the world... remember you have God on your side.
7. Everything we think we aren't in the world's eyes we already are in God's eyes.
Be confident in who you are. Next time you think you aren't pretty enough, skinny enough, your hair isn't the right color, you aren't smart enough or whatever else goes through your mind... remember you are everything to God. He sees us for who we truly are, and that is the person He wants us to be.
Next time you catch yourself thinking negatively, take a minute and pray. Don't overthink. Everything that comes to mind give to God.
