We all have this idea of having the perfect boy in our lives who is our knight in shining armor. As much as we know that it's not a reality, we still do have certain expectations for the man in our lives to meet. Now he doesn't have to meet all of them, but he does have to be worthy. Here are 8 signs why he's not the one:
1. He's always making excuses
He always comes up with some excuse as to why he can't see you or hang out with you a certain day. You know that it's just an excuse after excuse and you know he just doesn't want to see you. If he really loved you, he would always find some time in his day to be there for you and see you if you really matter to him. He is also making excuses about other things as to why he did this, when it was the wrong thing to do.
2. He leaves you on read
You are in the middle of a conversation and you may say something that he doesn't want to respond so he leaves you on read. Or he leaves you on read multiple times in the middle of the day for no reason. You deserve to be answered unless he is truly busy. You have the time to answer and respond to him and he sure does have the time too but chooses not to.
3. It's an effort for him to text you first
You are always the one texting or snap-chatting first. If you don't text or snap first, you will never hear from him. You should not always be the one putting in effort if he claims how much you mean to him in your life. It should not matter who communicates first. If you love someone, you talk to them the first 500 times, it should not matter.
4. You're constantly overthinking.
He expresses all his feelings to you but they don't play out through his actions. He makes plans and promises to go a certain place with you, but than comes up with a shitty excuse as to why it never happened. He's always talking to other girls, but it always feels like its a lie about who they actually are so you're constantly thinking "Am I being lied to or are they actually who he says they are because it doesn't seem it how much time he talks to them."
5. He calls you after 12am too often
You should not only be on his mind past midnight when he's bored or drunk. If he really likes you and cares for you, he should call you spontaneously in the middle of the day when he has free time to see how you are doing and how your day is going. You deserve more than someone who only thinks of you late at night.
6. He's not loyal
You guys are not exclusive yet after a long time, but if he's seeing or talking to lots of other girls regularly and you're looking for something more serious, he's probably not the guy you're looking for. He claims the other girls he's talking to or snapping are nothing, but it's a constant thing so they obviously mean something to his life. Let him go.
7. He's afraid of commitment
You have been talking for a while now, but there is still no title. He comes up with different excuses as to why you are not together, but in all honestly, if he really wants to be with you, he would be with you without any sort of excuse. There should be no reason why he is blaming it on timing or distance. Love is love and love will always find its way no matter the timing, distance or excuses.
8. They are always on their phone when they are with you & still has dating apps
Why? Spend time with the person you are with. There is nothing on your social media that is so important that you must look at right now. Show your girl the respect she deserves and get off your phone. Also, if he's still on dating apps, that's of huge sign to let him go. Even if he claims he doesn't actually go on them, he's lying. He is on them when you are not around and you deserve to be with someone who treats you so much better than that. Let him go get with random person from Tinder and then laugh at how stupid he was for letting you go compared to the Tinder girl.
