6 Surefire Ways To Know Your Guy Is A Keeper
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6 Surefire Ways To Know Your Guy Is A Keeper

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6 Surefire Ways To Know Your Guy Is A Keeper
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Ok, ladies we have all been there. There were relationships that lasted for years but never felt quite right. The relationships that were good, not great. Relationships where you settled or when you knew you needed to move on. You might wonder is it a good sign that he does such and such or a bad sign? Here I have laid out some sure fire ways to know that your guy is a keeper:

1. He wants to hang out with your family.

I'm not talking about just going out to dinner once a week. I mean he wants to spend quality time with your family whether that is doing yard work, running errands, or whatever it may be. He enjoys being with your family and knows that you being close to them is important.

2. He wants to help no matter what.

Whether that is making dinner a couple times a week, doing dishes, or helping you with your work, he wants to help out and make things easier. It is not because you are not capable, it's just that he literally wants to be involved in any way he can.

3. He remembers your favorite things.

He will remember what you have said before. He remembers what you said your favorite movie was and wants to dedicate a night to watching said movie. He remembers what your favorite drink is and shows up with it. It pays to listen and be present in a relationship.

4. He values your opinion.

This does not have to be in regards to big subjects such as politics. I'm talking about he consults you with all of life's big decisions such as job offers or issues in the workplaces, housing, and friendships. He wants your opinion because he values it. He knows that you care about him, that you have his back and want what is best for him.

5. He makes time no matter the situation.

It does not matter how long of a day he has had at work, school, or doctor's appointments. He makes the time to see you because just seeing you makes the day better. You are the best part of every day to him, and are a source of comfort to him, not a source of stress.

6. Every single person who has met him has said something like this:

"He is the boyfriend you deserve." "He is absolutely perfect for you." "He is the nicest person ever." It's not what they think of their appearance, it is the fact that every single person likes him. Yes, there are some opinions we do not value or do not deserve to be valued. However, you value everyone in your close circle of friends or family that care about you. Those who just wants what best for you absolutely love him.

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