Far too often, we focus on what can be seen at surface-level. People tend to describe others with words like tall, short, pretty, skinny, thick, blonde, brunette, big, little, and other appearance-focused descriptors.
While using this type of language in conversations has emerged as a commonplace in modern American culture, it confines complex human beings to simple, shallow boxes.
Describing people based on superficial observations leaves no room to focus on strengths, traits, and qualities that make people beautiful, regardless of what can be seen at the surface. Next time you are trying to describe or compliment someone, consider the following words and look within— you'll be surprised how much people appreciate it:
1. Intelligent
2. Hard-working
3. Kind
4. Courageous
5. Bold
6. Lively
7. Vivacious
8. Passionate
9. Creative
10. Friendly
11. Warm
12. Helpful
13. Strong
14. Resilient
15. Well-spoken
16. Ambitious
17. Talented
18. Inspiring
19. Cheerful
20. Dependable
21. Caring
22. Erudite
23. Colorful
24. Focused
25. Admirable
26. Warm
27. Enthusiastic
28. Fearless
29. Impressive
30. Meticulous
31. Selfless
32. Likable
33. Affable
34. Charming
35. Delightful
36. Lovely
37. Exciting
38. Adventurous
39. Fantastic
40. Clever
41. Visionary
42. Sweet
43. Cool
44. Sharp
45. Trustworthy
46. Special
47. Approachable
48. Considerate
49. Pleasant
50. Reliable
This is not an exhaustive list and I know there are many great words out there, but I hope these words makes you think of people in your life who possess these qualities.
There is so much more to people than what can be seen at first sight and the world would be a better place if we broke the habit of describing people based on their physical appearance.
