When you were just starting college, you probably read your fair share of articles titled, “Things No One Tells You About College.”
Now, your college career is coming to an end, and you are about to embark on your journey into the real world. You are unsure about what to expect because no one really talks about what comes next. Maybe because it’s taboo. But maybe because it’s different for everyone. For some of you, graduating college may mean going to grad school, and for others, perhaps it’s the workforce. And then some of you may have absolutely zero idea what's next. And that's OK, too.
Regardless, here are just a few things I wish someone told me.
1. It’s scary
You will no longer have the excuse of being in school. You will be responsible for more and set larger expectations for yourself. People will judge the very basis of who you are upon answering the single question that is, “What are you doing now?” You will scroll through Facebook and Instagram and see people’s posts about their life achievements. You will hear about grad school acceptances, job offers, world travels, and engagements. You might feel jealous, even mad. You will think that you are behind. But please remember, people only put the best parts of their life on social media.
2. You might move back home
Although you dreaded moving back in with your parents after four years of freedom, don’t worry. It’s not so bad. For some, it might mean home-cooked meals and clean laundry. For others, you might be expected to do chores, but at least it’s free rent. Your parents might nag you from time to time, but they get it. They know times have changed and the world we live in is much harder than it was when they were our age. Don’t forget, your parents always have your back.
3. Although incredibly qualified, you may not even make the short list for that entry-level position
And in all honesty, there is no rhyme or reason to it. And on the flip side, you might find that you don’t fit all the qualifications listed for a position, yet you still get hired. I’m still trying to figure this one out myself, but that leads me right to #4.
4. Never stop trying
You will get there. After college, it seems like the time to find out what you want out of life is endless because it is. You can be whoever and whatever you want. Figure out who you are and who you want to be. Be the best you and just put yourself out there. Keep going after what you want. Don’t doubt yourself. It is worth it.
5. You might feel alone
Friends that you’ve spent the last four years with may move away or back to their parents’ homes. You might find yourself on a Friday night (or multiple Friday nights), eating slices straight from the pizza box and binge-watching Netflix alone. I know, it can seem like a lonely road. Like the world is against you. Like you’ve worked so hard for nothing.
Take it from me… it’s been 4 months since I’ve graduated and I still don’t know what I’m doing. But trust me, you are not alone. And if you do ever find yourself feeling this way, just remember, better things are coming.
