Beginning college as a freshman can be incredibly stressful, there's no doubt about that. You're basically leaving everything behind and starting a new life. It's easy to feel a little lost at first, and that's normal! Now that I'm a junior and two years into this whole experience, there're a few things I wish I had known when I was in your shoes.
1. Decorate a bedroom that you can feel comfortable in.
You don't have to buy the nicest bedding or a 50" flat screen TV; just make an atmosphere you look forward to coming home to. Personalize your room! Hang up posters of your favorite bands or sports teams, and bring pictures of your family and friends.
2. Leave your door open.
The people living on your floor the first year may become some of your closest friends. Try to leave your door propped open whenever you can. It invites you to get to know your floormates, and maybe your potential best friends.
3. You don't have to do what everyone else is doing.
If partying isn't your thing, don't feel pressured to go out all the time. There's always going to be people who go out most nights of the week, and that's fine. But know that there are many other ways to get involved around campus.
4. Make friends in your classes, especially those in your major.
I didn't realize this at the time, but to this day, I still work with people who were in my Intro to Media class years ago. Get to know each other! Not only will you be able to talk about that group project you've been dreading, but you'll find common interests with one another. I mean, you are working toward the same degree on your diplomas.
5. Branch out and try to avoid falling into a clique.
You're going to be around these people for four years of your life; you're on a journey together. Try to make the most of it! You'll meet all kinds of people, good and bad. But make it a point to get to know everyone. Always smile and say hi to friends or acquaintances in passing. Kindness does go a long way, especially when making new friendships. You'll be happier in the long run!
