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5 Things I Want My Big To Know

“She is half my soul and half my heart. Without my big, I’d fall apart.” – Anonymous

Allison Phillips
Feb 16, 2015
Mississippi State University
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5 Things I Want My Big To Know

Getting a big is one of the greatest moments in a sorority woman’s collegiate life. My big has been there for me since day one, and here are the top ten things that I think every little can relate to in some way.

1. Thank you for saving me from a creepy guy at a party. That was the moment I knew you had to be my big, and I was determined to be your little. Plus that’s what bigs are for, right?

2. Thank you for listening to my problems. Problems could range from what I am going to wear that night to boy drama to changing majors and making other life decisions. You have seen it all with someone like me as your little, and you still keep me around. Thanks for that.

3. Thank you for telling me when you think I am about to make a bad decision. Even if I don’t listen to you and do it anyway, I always come back by saying “You were right.” Thanks for being patient with me when I ignore your perfect big advice. After all, big knows best.

4. Thank you for letting me stay at your place when things got hard for me to deal with. You are constantly looking out for me, and making sure I am okay. Even when I am not okay, you always know how to make it better.

5. Thank you for being my best friend. You have been there for me through it all since day one, and I would not have it any other way. You are the best big a girl could ever have, and I am blessed to have you as mine. Thanks for listening (and fake laughing) to all of my stupid jokes and thanks for being my shoulder to cry on when things get rough. You are the definition of a best friend, and I love you more than you will ever know. You’re the best, big.

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