Going from high school to a large university hundreds of miles from home was one of the biggest transitions I have ever made. However, through the pangs of homesickness, crappy dorm food, late night studying, and crazy Thursday nights, I learned some of the most valuable lessons of my life.
1. Don't ever be too embarrassed of something you did at a party.
You're not the only one who tripped down the stairs at a frat house, threw up all over the bathroom stall instead of in the toilet, spilled your drink, hooked up with a weirdo, etc. Instead of holding onto these little moments, laugh at them and accept yourself.
2. Don't try to settle down with anyone.
This might be hard to hear, especially if you're in a long-distance relationship or "talking" to a guy/girl that you think you're really falling for. If you do end up dating him/her officially, good for you! But don't try to force anything or think that college is the perfect time to start dating someone. Yes, many people do meet the person they're going to marry during these four years, but forced relationships never end up going anywhere. Meet new people, experience new things, go on dates, and try not to let your hopes get too high with anyone. Just go with the flow.
3. Respect your body.
If you've gone out three nights in a row and realize you're tired and hungover every morning, take a break and let yourself rest for a few days. Unlimited freedom doesn't mean you should destroy your body before you've even reached your twenties. Never skip meals, workout whenever you can, and take daily showers. These simple steps will make your mood that much better.
4. Call your parents. Thank them often for everything they have done for you.
I made a point to call my mom at least once a day while I was in college. Instead of listening to music while walking back from class, call your parents and check in for at least five minutes a day. They appreciate it more than you will ever know, and they miss you more than anything. The only real way they know you're alive, safe, and healthy is by hearing the sound of your voice. Also, make a point to thank them whenever you can. They have done so much for you and continue to do so, especially if you're out of state.
5. Don't lose touch with people.
College is the time in your life when you find out who you are, who you want to be, and how to reach your goals. If a specific professor, mentor, friend, peer, etc. sticks out to you, don't ever lose contact with him or her. You'll never know when they'll come to your rescue. Also, never stop talking to your best friends from your freshman dorm. They were there for you before anyone else, have seen you at your worst, and supported you at your best. Even though you will all most likely be separated and living all over the place next year, they should always have a huge place in your heart.
I can easily say that my freshman year of college was the best year of my life, and also the greatest learning experience. Not only did I learn more in classes than I have in my all of my previous years of schooling, I also learned irreplaceable life lessons that I wouldn't have learned anywhere else. I will genuinely miss everyone I met and everything I did this past year so much. It went by faster than I ever imagined it could!
