It's a tough dating world these days. Half of my dating pool doesn't want to date, and half of the half that does, is already in a happy relationship. The other quarter is free game, but how is one to tell the good catches from the bad boys? Below are just a few characteristics that stand out from the crowd.
1. He's genuinely nice.
It's one thing for boys to be nice to who they like (hopefully AKA you), but it's another for them to have manners 24/7. Their actions will tell you a lot about who they are. Their selflessness and desire to help others should be evident. This isn't to say that he can't have selfish moments or need time for himself--we all deserve a break--just be observant of how he treats others and, of course, how he treats you.
2. He cares about what you have to say.
I, for one, talk a lot. Any boy who can put up with my incessant rambling is either a good listener, or a good pretender. In all seriousness though, find someone who is intrigued with what you have to say, even if it's as ridiculous as "what déjà vu is."
3. He makes an effort to give your interests a chance.
I have a few requirements, i.e.: you must like Harry Potter and marathon the movies with me as well as deal with the fact that I am obsessed with Taylor Swift. It's not too much to ask.
But even if you are totally a muggle or are a Kanye fan for some mysterious reason, it would still be nice for a bridge to start being built between our interests.
4. He has goals and ambitions.
One time, a guy tried to get me to go out with him by claiming that he'll be rich and famous someday. Believe me when I say it was a hard pass. While his dream of fame and fortune is technically a goal and ambition, his self-proclaimed good fortune is not enough to excuse the fact that he seemed really sleazy.
I'd prefer to meet someone who has goals not only for themselves, but for their family and those around him.
5. He challenges you to become better.
An ideal relationship would be one in which there is equal give and take, where two people inspire one another to become better versions of themselves. No matter how shallow the area of improvement is, find someone who is interested in you and in your potential.
