Relationships can be a rollercoaster, but sometimes your relationship, no matter how much fun it is, has to end. It's always difficult to leave a relationship, but sometimes there are signs that you're ready to move on, regardless whether it's good or bad. Moving on can happen in many different shapes and forms, but coming to terms with it is enlightening. Toxic relationships take the life out of you, but nothing is more empowering then knowing you're going to get past the death of a relationship. Here are some signs you might just be ready to move on.
1. You feel numb whenever you are around him or her. Even throughout all the mistakes, on both ends, you always settle because you love them. Sometimes loving someone isn't ever going to solve the real issue. You numb yourself to the bad things because you try to only feel the good.
2. You can't see a future with them because the differences are too big. You stare at them and know it's going to go down in flames. Deal-breakers are called deal-breakers for a reason; deep down in your heart you know it's not going to work out, unless you change as a person.
3. You unfollow them on social media. You don't care to see what they are doing now. It's obviously not about you if you're at this point. You know this is for the greater good; constantly checking what they are doing is unhealthy, and is emotional cutting.
4.You are open to new ways of dating *cough* tinder *cough*. Enough said.
5.You get exhausted telling your friends the horror stories that happen because you can barely wrap your head around them yourself. They become so familiar, and told so often, it literally drains you. As my sister Natalie says, "His name will be equivalent to Voldemort."
You're awesome and don't forget that. You're the most important person in your life. Take control and know your worth.
