Have you ever been talking to a guy and for the most part, you believe he's a good guy? He respects you, he teaches you new things, he listens to you, he answers his phone every time you call and he makes you feel like you're the only one. He keeps you smiling and laughing, and he gives you his undivided attention when the two of you are together. He's literally everything you want, but the one thing you hate about him is that he keeps sending you mixed signals, and he makes you feel like you're wasting your time. Here are 5 ways a guy can have you feeling like you're wasting your time on him.
1. He hasn't asked you out on a date.
If a guy only asks you to come see him, that is literally his way of saying come over so we can have sex. If you've been talking to a guy for months or even weeks and he has never asked you out on a date, and I'm not talking about going to get Chick fil a after sex, I'm talking about be ready at 9, wear something cute, matching panties and bra date, then girl you're nothing but sex to him and you're definitely wasting your time.
2. He doesn't makes time for you.
We all have busy schedules, and it always feels as though there's never enough time in the day to get stuff done, but we all make time for what we want. If he can go weeks without seeing you or days without talking to you, he's not that into you and you're wasting your time. A guy who's interested in you will at least send you a text just to let you know you're on his mind, and if he's really interested in you, he would make time to come see you.
3. You always have to go see him.
You always have to go see him at his place, but he never comes to you, and it makes you feel like you're wasting your time. It is so annoying when no matter how logical it is for him to come see you, you always have to go to him, and if you decide you don't want to go see him, then you know for a fact you two will go months without seeing each other. It takes little effort to make a drive that she has to make every time she wants to see you, just coming to her for a change can make her feel like she's worth something to you.
4. He's selfish during sex.
If he only cares about himself when it comes to sex, then girl, walk away. If he doesn't pay attention to your body, and he is always in a rush to get on top of you with little foreplay, then you're wasting your time. Orgasms should be equal and life is too short to be wasting your time having unsatisfying sex.
5. You feel like you can't ask him for help.
The guy you're dealing with is supposed to be your protector, meaning when you need him, he's there. If you feel like you can't ask your man for help, whether it be to come look at your car, to come comfort you when you're feeling lonely or sad or even for money to put gas in your tank, then you are wasting your time on him and it's time for you to walk away.
