When I couldn't find an Instagram or Facebook account for my roomie-to-be last year, I got worried real quick. Who was this girl? Was she messy? What if she was too crazy for me? I sent her a super embarrassing paragraph-long text introducing myself and tried to get some sort of vibe from her; she never replied.

Looking back now, I don't know how I ever lived my life without her. Everyone needs a Paloma in their life, and here's why:

1. She's a mom.

Paloma is always there for me when I'm freaking out -- even when it's 3 a.m. and we both have 8 a.m. classes the next day.

2. She's loyal.

Paloma is fiercely protective of her friends, and I thank my lucky stars every day that I made it in. She genuinely cares about each and every one of us and would do anything for us.

3. She's a great listener.

In a time where people hear but don't know how to truly listen, Paloma is refreshing in the fact that she can truly empathize with any situation.

4. She'll always make sure you've eaten something.

Oh my gosh, that girl can cook. Probably would've starved if it weren't for her.

5. She keeps it real.

No matter what is going on, Paloma tells it to you straight. She's given me new perspective outside of my own, and I couldn't be more grateful.

These are just a few of the millions of reasons why everyone needs a Paloma. I don't know how I'm going to live without you next year, but you can't get rid of me just yet!

Lil P + K 4ever