For genuine and good girls like me, you’ve probably wondered why almost every guy you start talking to ends up being like the rest. Y’all probably get attention from all kinds of guys. And, no, I don’t mean the negative attention: the cat calls, whistling, and sexual innuendos. I mean the “can I have your number?” attention or the “let’s get coffee sometime” attention. But how do all of the relationships that start (and I don’t mean dating) end up nowhere?

Let’s face it. Guys only want one thing. Well, for the most part. I guess I can’t generalize when I say they only want one thing. Some guys (the guys we want to believe are out there) actually have some type of gentleman in them. What is a gentleman, nowadays? I really have no clue, but they should at least have the decency to take you out to dinner, first, or even open a door for you.

Today’s society has become focused on sex. You’ve got it. The three letter word you have been waiting for. It’s all about sex. Yeah, you can say the media has glorified it, but they can’t make every 20-something female follow the guidelines or the lifestyle of pleasing guys. Unfortunately, that is what it has lead up to.

And I don’t know how many girls agree with me here, but there are girls who have messed it up -- you know, the easy girls are what has caused us to lose all forms of dating in our society. Have you ever wondered how so many guys are fascinated by the easy’ ones? Well, they’ve just ruined it for us goody-two-shoes.

It’s not like guys even like easy girls, they just know what they can get out of them, so they take full advantage of it. They are walking hormones just waiting for girls to show up, right and left.

Here are five reasons why the easy girls have ruined it for the rest of us.

1. They bat their eyes more than Tweety Bird.

If you’ve ever seen a desperate girl in action, you will see her being overly flirtatious. I mean, the point of no return flirtatious. C’mon, give us reserved girls a chance to show one of our newest pickup lines.

2. They flaunt their bodies more than Victoria's Secret models.

This really doesn’t need any explaining. Their clothes barely cover their bodies and they walk around with everything hanging out -- not cute.

3. No game playing -- well, maybe role playing.

Guys just find the communication so much easier. I wonder why -- they’re just pretty straightforward.

4. They are basically nocturnal.

Okay, maybe I’m exaggerating a little bit, but I really just don’t understand the 2 a.m. booty call that they’re always ready for. Like, aren’t you sleeping?

5. The give out more samples than Costco.

I’m pretty sure most of you can agree with me on this one. They go home with one guy, one night and another guy, the next. Of course they aren’t just hanging out watching movies or talking. Oh, no, they ride all over town making their mark wherever they go.