Best friends are undeniably some of the greatest people we encounter in life. They share our triumphs, drag us to our feet after failure, offer insightful advice, dry our tears and live in tandem with us. That is why it is so special when romance and the bonds of best friendship coincide. Here is a short list outlining why your significant other should also be your best friend.
1. You'll always be in love.
One thing that separates "normal" couples from those who share a friendship in addition to romance is the type of love present in the relationship. Anyone who has been in a longterm committed relationship knows that some days it is difficult to love your significant other; every now and then, it may even seem impossible. That is were being best friends comes in handy. On those days where being "in love" can be hard, friendship carries the relationship safely back into good times.
2. Sharing the laughter.
Anyone can share a laugh--family, friends, lovers, and even strangers. However, best friends share a special kind: the kind of laughter that is heard with the eyes and heart, but doesn't need to make a sound. This kind of laughter is a shared thought, an understanding between two people. When this is shared between significant others, it strengthens their bond and promotes growth in their relationship.
3. The late-night talks.
Talks always seem more genuine after 12 a.m. They get us through some of the hardest times in our lives as well as allowing us to reminisce on good times and create new memories. Best friends do this all they time; in a way, it's their specialty. It is even more comforting when couples do it because they understand each other in ways no one else can. How wonderful is it to have your best friend and lover comfort you with something so sincere?
4. It's easy to be around them.
One common problem between couples is the amount of time they spend together. One person may feel it's too little, the other too much. Being best friends offers a solution to this problem. Most best friends are attached at the hip while still being able to maintain enough alone time to never get sick of the cycle.
5. Knowing each other.
Our best friends know us like no other. They're our biggest fans, and our coaches. They always have our best interests at heart. Being in love with your best friend helps establish a deep understanding between the two of you. It encourages knowing your partner's needs, wants, abilities, and shortcomings.
Romantic love is most beautiful when it comes from your best friend. It is the kind of love that keeps people together for a life time. It is the kind of love that provides the deepest happiness. Every great love begins with a great friendship.
