As the class of 2016 graduated over the past couple of weeks, I thought about my own feelings when I walked across the stage. I was excited, nervous and ready for life's next chapter. Growing up in a small Upstate New York town was really great, but I then had to prepare myself for moving to Florida for college. After living in another state for a year and returning home for the summer, it really sunk in that I made the best decision ever. Going to college out of state brings on difficult challenges and emotions, but I think it brought more good than bad in my life. Here's why you should consider leaving behind your hometown for bigger and better things.
1. You finally have some freedom.
Alright, so obviously being away from your parents/family can be quite liberating, even if it is just for a day (or maybe even five minutes in some cases). Though in-state college goers experience this feeling, it is different for those that travel even farther. Being away from everyone you know, and not being able to drive home is scary yet amazing at the same time. At first, you might feel out of place, and will feel homesick at times, but it is worth it in the end. You can truly focus on your life without the familiar voices, as you find and raise yours.
2. New adventures, scenery and food.
One of the best parts of moving to a new place, in general and in this sense, are the new restaurants, landmarks, nature and more. You get to see an area of the country you may not have ever been exposed to and exploring it is so much fun. No matter if you move West, East, South or North, you will get to see how America is so varied and you will appreciate it. But seriously, the food is the best part.
3. You grow up faster.
This sort of goes along with the freedom aspect of going far away and might be cliche, but it cannot be stressed enough. You have to learn to manage your schedule, compose yourself in various situations and be self-sufficient at times. As you have more responsibility and don't have anyone to pick up your slack anymore, you grow up faster than those who stay at home. Do not underestimate or be intimidated by this fact either, as you really shape who you are.
4. Diversity.
Lastly, the diversity of your teachers, students and others around you will grow, depending on where you move to. Most colleges are melting pots of ethnicities and new ideas. I grew up in a town with a 99 percent Caucasian population and trust me, going to college with people who do not look like me was incredibly eye opening. It is extremely important to make friends with and respect those who are not the same color, gender or sexuality as you. Immerse yourself in a new culture, state and people that reflect different upbringings with you, and this will change how you look at the world.