National siblings day

National Siblings Day

Siblings are forever.


My three siblings have been keeping me going. They are some of the best people I got in my life, and each of them are there for me in one way or another. Siblings are awesome and I'm gonna share why mine are pretty snazzy.


Sisters are pretty cool humans — they are your first best friend and they always will be. My sister and I are 10 months apart, to save you from the "wait what" moment we are step-siblings and we met when we were 4 and 5 years old, so that's why I just drop the "step" and keep the sister. We have been in each others lives pretty much our whole lives so we have been there for each other during the good and the bad.

I would add cute little kid photos of us but she would kill me so recent ones it is! We had a time where it was a little awkward between us due to some family drama on my side so we kind of lost touch. But during high school we got that bond back, and in my opinion we are closer than we have ever been.

We knew that we would always have this connection between us but why not make it official with a sister tattoo. We are going though this crazy part of life together dealing with college and figuring out this thing called dating. When we are together it is like we are reading each others minds, and the inside jokes we have are obnoxious. We get into trouble together but it just makes it better to have a partner in crime to do it with. We even have our own song, so whenever we hear "Perfect" by Ed Shereen everything stops and we jam out to it. How this became our song was late night chilling on the back porch swing, and that night we came to the agreement that during our weddings we will have a sister dance and our husbands are just gonna have to deal with it. Now she just waits for November for when I turn the magical 21 so we can get into more trouble.


I have two younger brothers and they are both monsters. On of them is 14 years old and the other one is almost 4 — and life is just crazy and obnoxious with those two.


We have had more time to build this relationship and it has had its up and downs like any relationship with a younger brother. We used to have nights were we would stay up super late playing COD while having the music busted up loud so the parents wouldn't hear the us yelling at the TV.

When I have outfit issues and he gets so tired of listening to me complain, he will come in and pick my outfit and 9/10 its the outfit I end up wearing. He is also very protective — If he knows me and my sister are going out he will tell us what time to be home, if the outfit is "appropriate", and he wants to know some of the details about the gut. Which I just find so awesome that he cares about us that much to do something like that.

We go though times where we fight and yell at each other but we get through it by getting to bury him in the sand or faking him falling off a cliff, because that's how we deal with our issues ( or we just make each other food that also works)

don't worry I had a good grip on him and were no where near the ledge.

But no matter how many times we yell at each other I will always love this kid because if it wasn't for him I wouldn't have been a big sister the past 14 years.

Side note on the 14 year old he acts like he hates his sisters but yet when we go on vacation and we want to take pictures we go to him first to take some pictures of us. He acts like he hates it but we all know he loves it, plus he is pretty good at it!

look at my little bros skills

And he acts like he hates taking pictures but if you get us all down at the ocean around sunset we spend hours taking stupid but fun pictures together.


He might be my brother but he is my baby. This kid is so funny and can bring a smile to your face when you are having a bad day. He is also my selfie buddy — if Snapchat has the dog filter its game over we will be taking pictures for hours. He is the reason I go around the house singing "Moana" songs and making other people my age watch it.

This kid will walk into my room at times and ask to take a picture with me.

We have dance parties listening to either "In My Feelings" by Drake which he twerks to (and if you haven't seen a toddler twerk its the best thing ever) or we are jamming out to "Take Me Home Country Roads" and he sings his little heart out.

When we got our selfie game going we like to couple each others faces and it can get pretty great at times.

He is my favorite little human and I love him with all my heart. But he is also some pretty good birth control I will say that.

Even though our age ranges are for some close and for others far we are siblings and we will always be there for each other no matter what we will always be their for each other. And when we are all in the same room together beware we are a bunch of crazy people when we are all together. But that's how it is supposed to be right?

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A Letter To My Big Sister On Her Birthday

Happy birthday, best friend. I love you.

On this day, 24 years ago, you were born. (WOW, you are OLD!) Although I was not born for three more years (probably the longest three years of your life), February 19, 1993 is one of my favorite days. Why? Because it was the day the world was lucky enough to have you in it.

You are my best friend. You may have an R.B.F but you’re not as miserable as you look. You are funny. You are smart. You are sassy. You may be tough, but you have a heart of gold. You are loving and kind and genuine. With all these traits, you have helped me become who I am. You are my big sister. I have always looked up to you. I have learned so much from you. I learned how to be confident. I learned how to be strong. I learned how to (try to) chase what I want. I learned how to be dedicated. I learned how to be tough.

Thank you for always being there when I need you to be. Thank you for being reliable. Thank you for always buying me food and coffee (I’ll never be able to repay you). Thank you for always listening to me. Thank you for being a great example to look up to. Thank you for being the best big sister I could have ever asked for. Thank you for being my best friend.

As NEEDTOBREATHE and Gavin DeGraw once said, “And on those days when the sky begins to fall, you’re the blood of my blood. We can get through it all.” Every time I hear this lyric, I am amazed at how much it relates to us. It is so comforting knowing that no matter what happens in this crazy life, I will always have you by my side.

Happy birthday to you, best friend. I love you.

P.S. I hope you cried reading this.

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To The Older Sibling I Never Had, I Wish You Were Here To Guide Me

I know you don't exist, and I know you never will, but sometimes I catch myself imagining a life with you in it.


Even though years have passed since this horrific day, it still haunts my memory. Starting high school is a terrifying feeling and an insane transition when you don't have anyone to guide you through it. It was a mere 15-step walk to the door, and once I was inside my parents promised me there would be somebody there to help me find my classes, so why did I feel like I was being thrown straight into the gates of hell? I counted down the minutes until we pulled into the school parking lot and dreaded the sound of the car door opening and the anticipated start to the "best four years of my life."

As we were pulling up, I saw a girl who went to the same middle school as I following her older brother, who was a senior through the front doors as if it had been rehearsed at home. At this moment, I would have given my right foot to walk in her shoes right behind an older brother just this once. Eventually, with no place to hide, I just walked inside.

Unfortunately, this would not be the last of my longing for guidance from the older sibling I've never had.

I get it, I got a B in math. I get it, if I would have spent last Friday night studying instead of out with my friends it is possible that I could have gotten an A. But, what my parents seemed to not get was that life actually does go on even if you get a B on a report card. Time doesn't stop, your dreams don't diminish, and you are still viewed as a fairly competent person.

Luckily for my younger sisters, it seems my parents eventually did get it at the cost of my phone being taken away for three months and my social life ceasing to exist for the rest of that school year. As I spent every Friday night at home studying I longed, for just this once, to have an older sibling who was willing to take this hit for me.

Why did nobody tell me that it's actually more fun to go to school dances with friends than the boy you barely know who is just desperate for some conversation with the opposite sex?

I always wondered why that girl I went to middle school with never took a date to any of our formals or homecomings. Eventually, four homecomings and two proms later, I realized that this was because stumbling through the awkward introductions to family, tolerating the completely posed and overdone photos that would never actually be posted anywhere because you didn't talk outside of this forced interaction, and small talk over fruit punch and loud music was never actually necessary. Of course, I passed this message to my younger sisters and saved them the struggle of finding out for themselves.

Don't even get me started on being the first sibling to have to navigate applying to colleges.

I really could have used you then. I'm convinced there is nothing more difficult than trying to fill out a FAFSA or Common Application with absolutely no guidance or experience. Is my application essay long enough? Should I apply for early or regular admission? What if I don't get accepted anywhere? As selfish as it sounds, I would have given my other foot not to have to find these things out for myself.

I'd trade a lifetime worth of shotgun privileges to have you in my life to help me figure this stuff out.

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