That's a wrap, folks. My first year of college is over, and it seems like it flew by but took forever at the same time. I can't say it was all fun and games, though there were a lot of fun and games, but there was also a lot of work and some struggling too. Regardless, I wouldn't want to change a thing. I've learned some very important lessons during my first year- here are a few:
1.) You Are Not Alone When You Are Lonely
So, being an introvert who hadn't made new friends since kindergarten, college made me feel crazy lonely at first. There were a bunch of people that I knew, but not many that I had true bonds with. Only a few who I trusted to let me cry on them and share my problems with. I felt like I was the only one who felt lonely, but I was so wrong. The more I talked to other people, the more I realized that there were a bunch of other people who looked so happy, but were lonely just like I was. The best part is that God was there through all of it, and I'm certain that my loneliness was a time of growth.
2.) You Don't Have To Have Your Future Figured Out
I changed my majors twice, but 3 times technically speaking, and I actually plan on changing them again. This isn't crazy- in fact it's pretty common. I am the sort of person who likes having everything planned out, so I didn't necessarily enjoy the thought of constantly changing majors and having new class requirements to fill. But it's okay. I can't tell you how many countless stories I've heard of people who got a degree in something way different than the career(s) they ended up in. God will direct our paths, so we just need to trust Him and stop stressing about the future!
3.) Grades Do Not Define You
My grades didn't change drastically coming into college, but let's just say for the girl who was used to getting A+'s in everything, it was a bit of a shock to get a B- as a final grade in one of my classes. The problem was that I had put a lot of my identity in my grades. Though I still strive to do my best, I no longer freak out as much when I get a lower grade than I expected. Somehow, things always seem to pull through. There's no use in worrying too much.
There are obviously so many more things I learned from my first year, but it would take me forever to list them. The main thing is: God will take care of everything. I don't need to worry, because He has me (and you!) in the palm of His hands. It's a comforting thought that will get me through this college thing- actually, not just get me through- but will help me to enjoy it as much as possible!
