There is a very secret club within every fraternity on campus that is extremely exclusive. You can't ask to join, you can't even pledge it, however; you kinda just become an initiated member when it happens. This club is like no other, it's the girlfriend club. Being a girlfriend of a fraternity is very different than being that girl that comes around all the time, or the groupie, or even the fraternity slut. It's a right to passage. A lot of other girlfriends may also feel at one point in their term of girlfriend they transform from just being another fraternity girlfriend to the fraternity mom. Now, you may ask: what does it mean it be a fraternity mom? ...

Fraternity Mom: (noun) A young female, usually attending college, who takes on the position of "Mom" for poor helpless fraternity men who need taking care of. Usually the said "Fraternity Mom" finds that she takes care of the fraternity like her own children, and love said fraternity more than her own sorority at this point.

Now, being in the girlfriend club in the fraternity is exclusive; now imagine how selective the fraternity mom club is. If any of the following apply to you, you may be a newly initiated member into the fraternity mom club.

1. You call the brothers, “the boys,” when referring to them, and everyone automatically knows whom you’re talking about.

2. You're constantly asked “Can you post on your sorority Facebook page to see if anyone would want to go to formal with me?”

3. You're no longer greeted every time you come over because they never thought you left.

4. Everyone in the fraternity has seen you with no makeup, hair tied, and sweatpants on and it doesn't even phase you.

5. You, basically, have more of their shirts than your own sorority at this point.

6. You wave to every brother on campus like you're part of the fraternity.

7. You're extremely surprised when you're introduced to someone new because you thought you knew everyone?

8. Running for sweetheart gives you nightmares because you know what happens behind the scenes.

9. The pledges are practically your babies and it's socially acceptable to call them your baby.

10. Social chair always texts you for advice for themed events.

11. When a girl is ever needed for any situation, you're always asked first.

12. You always have downs on man-pong.

13. Every personal occasion of yours is always celebrated at the fraternity without even having to ask.

14. Your boyfriend's best friends all refer to you as their girlfriend and babe as well.

15. Sometimes, you're the only girl at the fraternity pre-gaming to go out, and you're okay with it.

16. You have friends you met solemnly because you're dating a brother, and they are also a girlfriend of the fraternity.

17. You promote their chapter probably more than your promote your own sorority during rush.

18. You know every big/little combination.

19. You are comfortable being the first girl to arrive and last girl to leave every party.

20. You get a little bit of power bossing around the pledges.

21. You're practically an honorary brother.