21 Thoughts Every Girl Has About Her Crush

Oh boy. CRUSHES. You can't live with them, and you can't live without them.

If you're anything like me when you have a crush on a guy you probably can't seem to think of any way to approach him without the fear that you're going to embarrass yourself or freak the poor guy out.

So instead of actually speaking to him, and showing you're interested you decide to act like you have no interest in him at all and hope that he decides to read between the lines and makes the first move. ( Why do we do this? It's so dumb).

In honor of all the girls out there who go through the same struggle as I do when I have a crush, here are 21 thoughts that go through a girl's head when she has a crush.

1. "Oh my gosh, he is so cute!"

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*sigh*

2." Wait, did he see me staring? Yeah, I think he did."

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It's okay, it's okay! Just act natural!

3. "I should go say hi to him."

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"No. Don't do that. He'll think you're crazy."

4. "Be confident. Guys think confidence is hot."

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5. "Ah, what am I thinking? He'd never like a girl like me."

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*sobs into pillow*

6."I know. I can drop my pencil on the floor so he can pick it up."

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"Opps! Would you please get that for me?" *bats eyelashes*

7."What if I unbutton the top button of my shirt?"

"Well, now I look like a total slut!"

8. "I know! Twirl your hair! It'll make you look cute!"

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"Tee hee! Why do I feel like such an idiot?"

9. "I should think of something witty to say. Make him laugh."

*Forgets every funny joke ever known.*

10. "Wait, have I even spoken to him before?"

"We've had to right? We have like 3 classes together."

11. "OH MY GOSH, HE HELD THE DOOR OPEN FOR ME!!!"

"WHAT A GENTLEMAN!"

12."Why does he have to be so cute?"

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*high pitched squeal*

13. "He's walking right next to you. Say something."

*Forgets how to function completely*

14. "HE SMILED AT ME!! HOLY CRAP HE SMILED AT ME!!"

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"Ok! This is your shot! Show him that amazing smile you have!"

15."Maybe he didn't smile at me."

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"There could have been someone walking behind me that he smiled at. "

16."Now is the perfect time to start a conversation!"

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"Say something now, you idiot!!"

17 "Maybe he'll say something instead."

*pure silence*

18."I blew my chance."

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"I am going to die alone! With 30 cats!" *sobs*

19."Why am I such an idiot?"

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"You could have said something. You chose not to. Now you have to live with that decision."

20. "UGH! Why can't I just say hi?"

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"It's not that hard. JUST SAY HI!" *sobs*

21. "Oh well. I can just try again tomorrow."

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