As my 20th birthday approaches, I’m starting to think about all the things I’ve learned during my teenage years. There sure are some things that I wish I could tell myself to do differently, but I can’t do that. Rather, I can reflect on the things that I have learned and can continue to learn from in the future.
1. If you want something, go after it. Even if it doesn’t go as planned, you’ll learn something along the way.
2. Tomorrow is not promised.
3. You’re lucky because your parents are the most supportive people in your life.
4. You’re lucky because your best friends are going to be your bridesmaids.
5. You succeed most when you step out of your comfort zone.
6. It’s okay to stay in and watch Netflix. You won’t miss out on anything monumental.
7. It’s important to take care of your body. You’re not a high school athlete anymore.
8. Networking is everything.
9. What’s for you will not pass you.
10. Remove toxic people from your life.
11. Save your money, but definitely buy that overpriced dress you can’t stop staring at.
12. Don’t be afraid of change.
13. Be kind to everyone you meet.
14. It’s okay to not know what you’re doing.
15. Making the effort to stay in touch with people you love is extremely important.
16. Always wake up early enough to get coffee in the morning.
17. Your past decisions and actions do not define your present self.
18. Cut yourself some slack. You do it for everyone else.
19. Follow your dreams and explore your passions.
20. Love the life you live.
