18 Girl Power Songs For The Independent Women

18 Girl Power Songs For The Independent Women

The playlist to make you feel fierce.

One of my best friends just recently went through a tough break up. As we were discussing some of the best things you can do to get yourself back to normal, we decided that a good playlist of songs that celebrate independent and single women was the way to go. So here it is, for all of you self sufficient, independent women!

1. "Survivor" by Destiny's Child

For those girls who are putting it in their ex's faces that they, "Thought that I would die without you, but I'm livin'. Thought I would fail without you but I'm on top!" Keep on survivin'.

2. "You Don't Own Me" by Grace featuring G-Eazy

This entire song is just perfect for those girls who can't be tamed and know they're completely fine all by their lonesome selves. "She ain't never ever ever ever gonna be owned."

3. "Me, Myself and I" by G-Eazy featuring Bebe Rexha

Another G-Eazy debut, the guy loves to accompany headstrong women!

4. "No Scrubs" by TLC

When a guy's a scrub and won't take "no" for an answer, what do you do? Play this song on repeat. Oh, yes, son, I'm talkin' to you.

5. "Love Myself" by Hailee Steinfeld

This is celebrating the fact that women can be self-sufficient mentally and physically. Anytime, day or night. I love me.

6. "Sorry" by Beyoncé

Just perfect for all you ladies who look back and are proud to say, "I ain't sorry."

7. "Say My Name" by Destiny's Child

This is just one of those girl power songs that proves girls know everything and we are always looking for the truth. "If no one is around you, say baby, I love you."

8. "Unwritten" by Natasha Bedingfield

Girl power in its most innocent form!

9. "Can't Hold Us Down" by Christina Aguilera

Talk about a throwback from the early 2000's. Christina Aguilera preached to all the girls around the world who've come across a man who don't respect their worth. "What do we girls? Shout out loud!"

10. "Hello" by Martin Solveig featuring Dragonette

A great theme song for all my single ladies!

11. "Gunpowder and Lead" by Miranda Lambert

What are little girls made of?

12. "Run The World (Girls)" by Beyoncé

Who run the world? Obviously, girls.

13. "Miss Moving On" by Fifth Harmony

Shake it off like an Etch-A-Sketch and move your pretty face along!

14. "She Don't Wanna Man" by Asher Roth featuring Keri Hilson

A great pre-gaming song before a girl's night out!

15. "22" by Taylor Swift

The only song you can sing at any age and feel 22 every time.

16. "Single" by Natasha Bedingfield

My declaration of independence.

17. "Don't Hurt Yourself" by Beyoncé

She's so mad and so fierce. For all you women out there who know you're the boss.

18. "Confident" by Demi Lovato

Every girl should wear a smile and her confidence.

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​An Open Letter To The People Who Don’t Tip Their Servers

This one's for you.

Dear Person Who Has No Idea How Much The 0 In The “Tip:" Line Matters,

I want to by asking you a simple question: Why?

Is it because you can't afford it? Is it because you are blind to the fact that the tip you leave is how the waiter/waitress serving you is making their living? Is it because you're just lazy and you “don't feel like it"?

Is it because you think that, while taking care of not only your table but at least three to five others, they took too long bringing you that side of ranch dressing? Or is it just because you're unaware that as a server these people make $2.85 an hour plus TIPS?

The average waiter/waitress is only supposed to be paid $2.13 an hour plus tips according to the U.S. Department of Labor.

That then leaves the waiter/waitress with a paycheck with the numbers **$0.00** and the words “Not a real paycheck." stamped on it. Therefore these men and women completely rely on the tips they make during the week to pay their bills.

So, with that being said, I have a few words for those of you who are ignorant enough to leave without leaving a few dollars in the “tip:" line.

Imagine if you go to work, the night starts off slow, then almost like a bomb went off the entire workplace is chaotic and you can't seem to find a minute to stop and breathe, let alone think about what to do next.

Imagine that you are helping a total of six different groups of people at one time, with each group containing two to 10 people.

Imagine that you are working your ass off to make sure that these customers have the best experience possible. Then you cash them out, you hand them a pen and a receipt, say “Thank you so much! It was a pleasure serving you, have a great day!"

Imagine you walk away to attempt to start one of the 17 other things you need to complete, watch as the group you just thanked leaves, and maybe even wave goodbye.

Imagine you are cleaning up the mess that they have so kindly left behind, you look down at the receipt and realize there's a sad face on the tip line of a $24.83 bill.

Imagine how devastated you feel knowing that you helped these people as much as you could just to have them throw water on the fire you need to complete the night.

Now, realize that whenever you decide not to tip your waitress, this is nine out of 10 times what they go through. I cannot stress enough how important it is for people to realize that this is someone's profession — whether they are a college student, a single mother working their second job of the day, a new dad who needs to pay off the loan he needed to take out to get a safer car for his child, your friend, your mom, your dad, your sister, your brother, you.

If you cannot afford to tip, do not come out to eat. If you cannot afford the three alcoholic drinks you gulped down, plus your food and a tip do not come out to eat.

If you cannot afford the $10 wings that become half-off on Tuesdays plus that water you asked for, do not come out to eat.

If you cannot see that the person in front of you is working their best to accommodate you, while trying to do the same for the other five tables around you, do not come out to eat. If you cannot realize that the man or woman in front of you is a real person, with their own personal lives and problems and that maybe these problems have led them to be the reason they are standing in front of you, then do not come out to eat.

As a server myself, it kills me to see the people around me being deprived of the money that they were supposed to earn. It kills me to see the three dollars you left on a $40 bill. It kills me that you cannot stand to put yourself in our shoes — as if you're better than us. I wonder if you realize that you single-handedly ruined part of our nights.

I wonder if maybe one day you will be in our shoes, and I hope to God no one treats you how you have treated us. But if they do, then maybe you'll realize how we felt when you left no tip after we gave you our time.

Cover Image Credit: Hailea Shallock

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8 Affirmations For Every Struggling College Student

You're doing well.


College is tough. In high school, you normally got the best grades and were one of the top students, but in college, everyone seems to be as good or better than you. Here are eight affirmations to remember while you're in college.

1. Just because you’re struggling academically doesn’t mean you’re ignorant or stupid.


2. Just because you’re struggling mentally or emotionally doesn’t mean you’re weak or oversensitive.


3. Your college education is an opportunity for you to enhance your life and challenge yourself to become a better version of yourself.


4. Success doesn’t come easily - it requires LOTS of patience, hard work, learning, perseverance, sacrifice, love, and passion for what you’re doing.


5. “Strength doesn’t come from what you can do. It comes from overcoming the things you once thought you couldn’t.” -Rikki Rogers


6. These challenges in your life right now exist for a reason - they exist to make you stronger and help your character grow.


7. “If you are working on something that you really care about, you don’t have to be pushed. The vision pulls you.” -Steve Jobs


8. You’re doing well. Without a doubt, it’s hard now, but in the end, it’ll all work out.


Sometimes, it's hard to adapt to college life because it seems like everyone else has their shaz together, but you're not alone. Yes, it's hard as heck now, school's rough, and you feel like you're behind, but don't worry - you'll get through this.

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