Your virginity is something that should mean a lot to you. The best advice anyone can give is to wait for the right person, but here are 15 other helpful tips.
1. Losing your virginity can be very weird and awkward, but you should laugh and have fun.
2. Communication is key when it comes to having sex, make sure you're comfortable the whole time.
3.If you're a girl, I just want to say, it's not going to be the most pleasing experience.
4. Have sex when you're ready; DO NOT let anyone pressure you.
5. Do it tomorrow, or wait until your wedding night. Whatever works best for you.
6. Absolutely make sure you are sober for your first time. You do not want to end up regretting or forgetting it in the morning.
7. Take your time with foreplay. That's half the fun, and it will also help you stay relaxed and enjoy the experience.
8. Using lube can be an absolute lifesaver. It can make things less painful.
9.Honestly, don't worry if you don't absolutely enjoy it. The first time is almost always never enjoyable.
10. Try not to worry about bleeding. Some people bleed a little, some people bleed a lot, it depends on the person. For example, I didn't bleed at all after my first time.
11. Obviously, you should always use protection! It doesn't matter if you're on the pill, you can still get pregnant.
12. Try not to copy porn, because that's not realistic at all.
13. It's okay to be nervous; everyone is their first time around.
14. It might not be the most magical experience you'll ever have.
15. RELAX RELAX RELAX.
My first time was with an absolutely amazing person. He was so sweet and kind and made sure I was comfortable the whole time. Afterwards, he made sure I was okay physically and emotionally. Overall, make sure you are absolutely ready to lose your virginity, and make sure it's to the right person.
