1. My dad told my mom on their first date that he knew she was the one and wanted to spend the rest of his life with her (scary or romantic?).
Got engaged 4 months later, and married 4 months after that. The guy was not wasting anytime there people.
2. After 21 years of marriage and 3 kids later, my dad is still obsessed with my mother.
I mean she is almost 50 and still rocking it, but whether she is a hot mess or all dressed up, he is complimenting her and still head over heals. He is always taking her picture; I guarantee you over half of his camera roll is pictures of my mother.
3. They are constantly motivating each other to their fullest potential.
When one is slacking behind, the other picks them up, not leaving one behind.
4. They work out in our basement together and my dad takes my moms classes (she is a yoga and group fitness instructor).
SO they are both fit and killing it.
5. Whenever I go home, there is always packages being delivered, and I’m like mom what is this and she is like oh it is just dad buying me another dress or bathing suit.
After all of these years, he still spoils her.
6. They are so goofy together.
They blame their farts on each other (or my little sister even when she’s not in the room) (farts are very funny in my family, don't judge). Also, we have a mug of my parents kissing on a bike and it is my friends favorite mug to drink out of (you know who you are).
7. They are always putting each other before their self, which results in a constant build-up of positivity and encouragement.
8. My dad writes my mom little love notes on sticky notes and sticks them all over her bathroom mirror. It is adorable.
9. My mom deals with my dad’s impatient-ness in a way I will never be able to comprehend.
They recognize each others faults and don’t discriminate each other for them.
10. Whatever challenges come their way, they always come our better and stronger on the other side, and they have been through a lot.
11. My mom is always putting my siblings and I before herself, and my dad is always pushing her to do things for herself like getting a massage, her nails done, or traveling.
They recognize how much work they each put into our family and love one another that much more because of it.
12. My dad is a pilot; therefore, he travels a lot.
My parents are constantly saying that the time they spend apart from each other just causes them to cherish the time they have together that much more.
13. They persistently say how they fall more and more in love with each other every day.
They say that they are more in love with each other now than they day they got married.
14. Making sacrifices for each other is huge.
This ties in with everything else I have been saying about my parents relationship, but sacrifice is essential in making a relationship successful and they got this down.
15. Recognizing what makes each other happy or upset and acting accordingly.
Knowing how to treat one another to uplift their mood and when to take a set back.
Overall, because I've grown up watching my parents relationship and witnessing how much they love each other, it sets my standards high, it gives me hope for what the future holds. Just seeing my parents love and care for one another has taught me so much about how relationships should be and God's love for his children. I just can't believe it has taken me this long to realize it. In a world where divorce has become so popular, I pray for this kind of love for myself, my siblings, my friends, other couples, and everyone else out there. No matter who you are, you deserve to be loved. God created us to love. Spread that love baby.
