Tattooing is one of the most permanent and everlasting forms of expression that exists today. Its perception in society has changed substantially throughout the generations in which our parents and grandparents were raised. Once considered a form of deviance among lower classes and younger crowds, it is now beginning to be viewed as a form of individualism and artistry, including both the artist and the artwork.
It’s more common now to see people of all ages and socioeconomic backgrounds sporting ink, but with its increased presence comes an increased amount of unsolicited feedback and questions from anyone who doesn't have any tattoos of their own. Most of the time, the questions are respectful and answering them is not a problem. However, there are a handful of occasions that cross the line and become offensive or intrusive.
Inevitably, visible tattoos attract attention in public. We knew exactly what we were getting ourselves into the moment we sat down in the artist’s chair. We are proud of the ink on our skin, whether it’s one small symbol or an entire sleeve. Regardless, there are quite a few things we’d rather not have you ask about our ink.
1. Can I touch it?
No thanks, I very much respect my personal space, and you should too.
2. Why would you get a tattoo if it doesn't have any meaning?
Sometimes tattoos have a great deal of meaning, and other times, they have absolutely no significance whatsoever. Both are perfectly acceptable, no matter what opinions people may tell you.
3. Did it hurt?
Getting a tattoo feels like being tickled by a thousand kitten whiskers. Yes, of course it hurt. Multiple needles piercing the epidermis isn't exactly a walk in the park, but we'd never let on exactly how much pain we endured. The result is worth it.
4. How much did it cost?
Every artist is different and each piece is typically unique. Asking for the price of my tattoo doesn't help gauge what any other future tattoo may cost.
5. Aren’t you worried about getting a real job?
A real job? What is that? Yes, it's something that is usually considered before even making the tattoo appointment. We've contemplated the implications of our actions on our future, and we'd appreciate it if you didn't try to do it for us.
6. Why aren’t your tattoos smaller?
7. I never really considered you to be the tattoo type.
Since when does there need to be a tattoo 'type?'
8. What about when you’re older?
Yes, my tattoos will still be there. That's what permanent ink does. No, I will regret them.
9. What will your future kids think?
10. I could never pull off a tattoo, but it looks great on you!
Is that some sort of back-handed compliment in which you're expressing your distaste for something on my body? Please respect my choices.
11. Were you feeling rebellious when you got it?
12. Do you have any “hidden” tattoos?
13. Would you cover them up, say, on your wedding day?
Tattoos are a form of art and people who have them are more than proud of them. The last thing I'd want to do is hide them on an occasion like that.
14. Does having a tattoo make you feel tough?
Do your questions become more ridiculous the longer I stand here?
15. You’re not going to get more tattoos, right?
