From bizarre contestants to "never before seen dramatic endings" the show never fails to fill our guilty pleasure needs. At this point I'm sure we could all probably predict each episode; who gets sent home and for what reason. The typical let down of, "You're a really great guy, I just don't see that connection between the two of us" is a go-to in desperate times. Among the many things this show has brought us, life lessons isn't at the top of the list but there sure are some valid points worth noting...
1. You have to sort through a few crazies to find "the one." Don't lose hope after encountering an onion-seeing-nutcase or two.
2. Don't be embarrassed of your job title, even if your family is. The more power to you if your official job title is "dog lover" or "free spirit" maybe just don't mention it on the first date.
3. No matter how many times you have been rejected, don't give up...Embody the bold attitude of Nick and keep your head up high even if you feel like you just got embarrassed on national TV for the second time.
4. First impressions are everything. Don't take them for granted. Be unique but avoid including props. Its simple.
5. There are, in fact, eligible single dads out there. Keep your options open; their kids are usually cute.
6. Be sure he likes you first. Be sure he likes you "a lot". Understand that he first likes you but know that he should be saying, "I love you" if a proposal is around the corner.
7. A little friendly competition is good for the soul...Nothing like a little dance party to ease the nerves of winning someone over.
8. Be sure to take care of any unfinished business with your exes before pursuing another relationship. No one should have to experience the painfully awkward situation of an ex showing up to a date she wasn't invited to.
9. Farmers have a pretty promising set up. Financially stable, beautiful farm land, sweet parents; they're keepers.
10. Keep the dates exciting, even if they make you uncomfortable. Go all out.
11. Drink at your own risk, but make sure you look presentable when he is picking between you and 20+ other girls. The emotions that come out when you're plastered are not typically accurate.
12. Avoid going to an island for a date; things don't typically end well. Or, take your own helicopter (in this case) because if you fly together it will make for an awkward ride home. Or, he'll simply leave without you.
13. Get over the awkwardness of meeting the potential in-laws by joining in on a big ol' family hug. Nothing says, "I love my potential in-laws" then a group hug with a bunch of people you just met.
14. Give it your all even if that includes your dignity. #noregrets
Lastly,
15. If Chris Harrison can write a book, you can do just about anything.
