I never understood what it was like when my friends would say that they hated being around their siblings or would constantly fight with them. When I was growing up, my older sister and brother were my best friends, and 21 years later, they both still are.
1. They actually won't tell mom and dad
They know you weren't really sleeping at your friends house, and you remember that time you caught them sneaking in through your bedroom window. When your close siblings, there is a shared code to not tell mom and dad.
2. You talk to them on a daily basis
It is not unlikely to wake up from text messages from them or to call them at the end of the long day. You always want to tell them the important highlights from your day.
3. You're constantly sending each other pictures through the day
Whether it's ugly selfies or a picture of the crazy lady you saw in the grocery store, your data for picture messaging is through the roof. Sometimes you can't always express yourself through words.
4. You cancel plans with your friends to hang out with your siblings
It wouldn't be surprising to your friends if you canceled mall plans with them to go to the mall with one of your siblings.
5. You actually try when picking out Christmas gifts
Christmas is the time to show your siblings just how much you appreciate them, so you always spend extra time picking out their Christmas gift. They also never seem to disappoint (thanks, guys). It has to be epic.
6. You miss them when you are away at school
Sometimes it doesn't feel right waking up in your dorm, there are days where you really miss being either down the hall or a couple minutes away from each other. It is hard not being able to drive to wherever they are -- you are all trying to adult and it stinks.
7. Thank goodness for Facetime
Thank goodness for Facetime because of those bad days where you just need to have some sibling bonding time. Face timing with them is just enough to feel like you are home together hanging out.
8. You bond over the aggravating things all families do
It is priceless to have a family member that can understand and appreciate all the things that drive you nuts. When you have someone to vent to, it makes those habits just that more bearable.
9. When you come home from school, they are the first people you make plans with
*Pulls into the driveway*
OK, what are we doing today?
10. They are your best dark secret keepers
There is no one that you can rely on to keep your darkest secrets to than your siblings. You both really know too much.
11. Their approval is crucial to you
Their opinion of you is crucial and disappointing them is literally the worst. Their opinion of your friends and significant other really influences your actions and who you surround yourself with.
12. They are your favorite person to have the occasional drink with
The occasional trip to happy hour (21 and older) where you can laugh and talk about everything that you have missed while you away are what you live for when you are home.
13. They are your number one fan
If you get a great grade on your test or that cute boy finally talked to you, they are the first person you call and the first person to congratulate. They come to all your softball games and are always on the sidelines cheering you on.
14. You love them unconditionally
There is no love greater than the one you have for your siblings. They are your better halves and you are thankful for them every day. I love you guys, thanks for everything.
