12 Ways To Have The Ultimate “Me-Day”

12 Ways To Have The Ultimate “Me-Day”

In the words of Donna Meagle, “Treat Yo’self.”

As summer winds down, many of us are beginning to feel the pressure of everything. With school starting, college students returning and vibes of relaxation and beach days disappearing, people are starting to feel a little down. If you feel any of these emotions, or perhaps are feeling down in reasons unrelated to these, I have a solution for you! Take a day off, or take half a day off and treat yourself. It's time to start giving yourself the love and attention you deserve. It's time to take care of your wants and needs for a little bit. Follow these steps to plan and then execute the perfect Me-Day.

1. Get a good night of sleep the night before.

Your rest is so important. If you’re truly planning to go all out, you need your beauty sleep! Also, waking up after a good night of sleep can increase tranquility.

2. Dress for yourself.

If you want to get dressed up and look fancy, go for it. If you want to chill in sweatpants and a hoodie, do it! This day is all about you! Dress to impress yourself!

3. Two words: Bubble bath.

Light a candle, put on some smooth jams and relax like you’ve never relaxed before. If you don't have a bathtub, don't fret! Take a long, hot shower. Play the same jams, wash your face and totally chill.

4. Pamper yourself.

If you can afford it, go out and get a massage, a new hairdo at the salon, or have your nails done. If that’s not an option, there’s plenty of at-home alternatives. Wash your face, moisturize, paint your nails yourself and do some muscle relaxation exercises.

5. Spend time on hobbies.

If you wanna catch up on that Netflix show, do it. If you haven’t had a chance to finish knitting that scarf, get those needles out. Do something that makes you happy.

6. Detox from social media.

Unless you’re documenting your Me-Day on Instagram or taking photos for a post later, try to detach yourself from social media. One post can break your focus and serenity. Avoid stress at all costs.

7. Eat an extravagant meal.

Whether you go all out for breakfast, lunch, or dinner, make sure to eat all your favorite foods without feeling guilty! You deserve this!

8. Get outside.

Even if you just sit on a patio or dip your feet in a pool, soak in the sunshine. If it’s raining, take a walk with an umbrella. Appreciate your surroundings.

9. Make plans to do something fun with friends.

Even though today is about you, social contact is good for maintaining your happy levels. Go dancing or have a friends-only night. Play board games if you want!

10. Listen to your favorite music.

Don’t be afraid to belt out those lyrics and shake that booty! Have fun! Let loose!

11. Change your sheets or tidy up.

New sheets can change the game. Cleaning up or freshening up your house could help yourself to feel more at home.

12. Treat yo’self.

Eat that pint of ice cream. Buy something for yourself. Watch vines all day. Laugh so hard you cry. You deserve nothing but the best on your Me-Day!

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I'm The Girl Without A 'Friend Group'

And here's why I'm OK with it


Little things remind me all the time.

For example, I'll be sitting in the lounge with the people on my floor, just talking about how everyone's days went. Someone will turn to someone else and ask something along the lines of, "When are we going to so-and-so's place tonight?" Sometimes it'll even be, "Are you ready to go to so-and-so's place now? Okay, we'll see you later, Taylor!"

It's little things like that, little things that remind me I don't have a "friend group." And it's been like that forever. I don't have the same people to keep me company 24 hours of the day, the same people to do absolutely everything with, and the same people to cling to like glue. I don't have a whole cast of characters to entertain me and care for me and support me. Sometimes, especially when it feels obvious to me, not having a "friend group" makes me feel like a waste of space. If I don't have more friends than I can count, what's the point in trying to make friends at all?

I can tell you that there is a point. As a matter of fact, just because I don't have a close-knit clique doesn't mean I don't have any friends. The friends I have come from all different walks of life, some are from my town back home and some are from across the country. I've known some of my friends for years, and others I've only known for a few months. It doesn't really matter where they come from, though. What matters is that the friends I have all entertain me, care for me, and support me. Just because I'm not in that "friend group" with all of them together doesn't mean that we can't be friends to each other.

Still, I hate avoiding sticking myself in a box, and I'm not afraid to seek out friendships. I've noticed that a lot of the people I see who consider themselves to be in a "friend group" don't really venture outside the pack very often. I've never had a pack to venture outside of, so I don't mind reaching out to new people whenever.

I'm not going to lie, when I hear people talking about all the fun they're going to have with their "friend group" over the weekend, part of me wishes I could be included in something like that. I do sometimes want to have the personality type that allows me to mesh perfectly into a clique. I couldn't tell you what it is about me, but there is some part of me that just happens to function better one-on-one with people.

I hated it all my life up until very recently, and that's because I've finally learned that not having a "friend group" is never going to be the same as not having friends.

SEE ALSO: To The Girls Who Float Between Friend Groups

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Millennials Are Killing The Doorbell Industry, One Text At A Time



When I was growing up, the only way my parents would let me go out on dates (or with anyone for that matter) is if they came up to the front door, rang the doorbell, and introduced themselves to whoever was around to answer. In the rise of the digital age though, our minds and bodies have become lazy — sending a text is way less work and saves you from the impending confrontation. Inspired by the lovely @youngandjoven, here are five reasons millennial's are contributing to the death of the doorbell.

1. Same realm as talking on the phone

Talking on the phone is another technological innovation that millennials have moved past, heck, even myself! I only answer my phone if the number is already saved in my phone or if someone mentioned they would call me because scams and cold calls have gotten really annoying in the past few years. The same goes for someone approaching my house and ringing the doorbell. If I'm unaware of someone or something coming, for example, a friend or FedEx, I probably won't answer. I'll get up, make my way over there, and look through the peephole or window before deciding if answering would be worth it to me. In this day and age, I'd say it's fair to assume someone ringing your doorbell unannounced means that it's either an elderly relative or a solicitor.

2. Don't talk to strangers

Ah, yes, the golden rule. Even now if I'm home alone, I still won't open the door if I spy a stranger through the peephole. For the longest time my parents, me, and everyone else for that matter believed if you were home alone and opened the front door, by any means, you will get kidnapped and killed. It's sad to say, but that seems to be a more relevant case today than when we were younger. Even if that stranger turns out to be a lost tourist or solicitor, keep that door SHUT, sis. The fewer encounters we have with strangers, the better — that's what Tinder is for anyways.

3. Triggered anxiety

Even to this day, when I hear a doorbell ring, I get chills down my spine and throughout my whole body. My friends agree, some saying it can even trigger a panic attack if it's early enough in the morning! The sound of a doorbell could actually be quite aggressive, especially if you have one of those kinds that ring on and on until the door opens. But with the doorbell technology, they've developed over the recent years, you could actually change the sound so it's not as harsh and startling, and some doorbells even connect to your phone and you can see who's out there via camera.

4. No doorbell, no problem

Some people are just getting rid of doorbells all together — my mother being one of them. If you're so paranoid and scared by the sound of a doorbell, you can easily remove it or hide it out of sight, so people cannot see. But then, you'd have to deal with knocking, which in some cases can even be worse.

5. Releasing the kraken

Don't even THINK about ringing the doorbell if you see a beware of dog sign out front. No matter how small or nice, every dog is something to beware once you step foot into a home. There is truly nothing worse than a barking dog, for either party. Even worse than dogs are babies. The sound of a crying baby on the other side of the door means that it won't be answered for a long time. Once it is answered, the person on the other side will not be happy. I believe that this case is the only perk for texting "Here" rather than ringing the doorbell, for obvious reasons.

Thank you "stella donnelly stan" for your amazing insight that actually sheds some light on our generation. Being totally immersed in our phones 24/7 isn't always all bad, sometimes it can be more effective to get things done.

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