Growing up, there were so many mini-lessons my mom taught me that I didn't even realize I learned until I got to college. Some of these included being nice and unselfish, how to cook chicken, and not leaving cutlery on the stove (oops). We all have amazing moms, and they all have taught us lessons that we did not even appreciate until years later.
1. Do something “you” every day.
Just because you’re in school and busy does not mean you can ignore who you are. Take 15 minutes a day and do something you, whether it's doing your makeup, reading a book, making a dish you like, whatever makes you, you!2. Clean the house when guests are coming
This applies to all guests, but especially those who haven’t been over before. You always want to make a good first impression on someone- and it shouldn’t be that you’re a slob. Clean up a bit- vacuum, tidy up, and sweep.
3. Dress nice daily
You never know who you will see or what might happen. Maybe you’ll have to speak in front of the class. Or talk to that cute guy that sits next to you in History. Or even impress that teacher you want to help you get an internship. But regardless of why, put some thought into your outfit every day. I'm not saying to pull on a dress or dress like the world is an interview, but don’t look like you just got out of bed, or else imagine your mom saying “You’re wearing that?”
4. It’s okay to still watch live T.V.
My mom LOVES live T.V. and does not understand Netflix. It is good every once in a while, especially when you need background noise when you study- the news and cooking shows are perfect for when you’re in your dorm room. Plus,why not experience something at the same time as the rest of the world?
5. Smile
It goes a long way. My mom always smiles, even when she is having a rough day and you can tell she is struggling. But a smile always changed her attitude. And it can change yours.
6. Follow your passion
My mom loved the idea of being a manager in college, so she mastered in business. Do what you love, and love what you do. Money is not everything.
7. Eat fruits and veggies
When I first got back to college this semester, it was hard eating healthy and I gained a few pounds. But ever since I remembered to buy fruits and that frozen veggies are your friend, I feel and look better. All thanks to my mom who asked, “And are you eating right?” when I complained to her about it. Just eat right. Every aspect of you will thank you.
8. Decorate during the holidays
My mom goes all out on most of the holidays. My house in Connecticut is currently covered in glass pumpkins. Decorate your dorm a bit; the Dollar Store and Target have great options, and you can decorate the whole house for less than $20.
9. Don’t clean everything all at once
Your mother can no longer nag you to clean your room. But every time you have a messy room, think about her nagging you- and how much better it is when it is clean. I know I am more relaxed when my room is clean. Because remember, one sock can turn into “Where’s my floor?” pretty quickly.
10. Make photo albums
And label everyone. My mom has a huge bookcase with over 2 dozen photo albums on it, from the early 90’s to now. Often when I’m home, I go back and look at my much younger self. And sometimes I go “Who is that?” and my mom says “Check the back," then I realize it's my old neighbor. Be able to tell your kids who your college friends were, and make photo albums with labels.
11. Do your dishes before bed
No one wants to wake up to a pile of messy dishes. Plus, they’re harder to clean after the food has been stuck on them for 12 hours. Personally, I am much less motivated in the morning, as before bed I would have just wanted to go to bed and get it over with.
12. Everything is gonna be alright
Breathe. Don’t sweat the little things. Do the impossible. And any other
cliché you can come up with.
Appreciate what your mom does and teaches you when you're not looking. And hug your parents every once in a while. Just like a smile, it goes a long way.
