Boys can be some of the most confusing things on earth sometimes. One day they’re into you and the next minute, completely out of your control, they drop you like you don’t matter. Most of the time they probably don’t even realize what they’re doing, but it’s incredibly easy to over think every little thing you possibly could have done to make him ignore your existence. Getting over someone you emotionally invested yourself in can be a process and it can get a little overwhelming. You do what you gotta do to make yourself independent again and you do it with the help of friends and ice cream.
1. You pretend it doesn’t bother you.
Your life motto right now is, “I don't need a man” and you’re just doing you.
2. You cry.
You realize being ignored by someone you liked does bother you. It also doesn’t help that as you walk across campus and see all the happy couples, you get a friendly reminder that you’ll probably be alone forever.
3. You get angry.
You’re mad at yourself for getting involved with someone like him, and you’re mad at him for not realizing how bomb you are.
4.You tell all your friends and gain an army of mutual hatred.
You want to feel less lonely, so you tell all your friends and expect nothing less than a herd of girls who hate him just as much as you do right now.
5. You tell yourself you’ll workout to make him jealous.
"I'm gonna get a super hot bod, and he’ll see me and wish he’d never left."
6. You do #5 for about 2 days then you’re over it.
Yeah screw the hot bod, Netflix over the gym, right?
7. You dye your hair a dramatic color.
You want a big change and you need to do something dramatic to take your mind off of the male species.
8. You cry again.
Nothing's working and I’ll be alone forever, its fine.
9. You eat a lot of ice cream and cookies.
Which is something you probably do anyway but now you have an excuse.
10. You call your mom.
She's your homie and she’ll always tell you what you need to hear.
11. You realize you’re better than him.
Everything you’ve been doing is just a distraction, and you see now that you’re a lot better than any guy by your side. You smell like pine needles and you have a face like sunshine, okay?
12. You eat more ice cream and cookies.
You’re proud of yourself for being an independent woman, and now you have only yourself to impress so you eat everything in sight.
