Four years ago, I began my first year of college, and I was absolutely terrified. I had no idea what I was doing or what to expect. It was tough. I was on my own for the first time. There were many things I wish I did differently, but I never made those same mistakes again. In your first year of college, you’re going to learn way more than just what your classes are about. You’re going to struggle. You’re going to waste your money, forget about papers and probably stay out way too late sometimes. But even through all those mishaps, you’re going to make it. I promise.
I put together these short and simple words of wisdom for all you freshmen starting your first year of college. Remember: It’ll be easier than you think. Just follow my list, and be prepared.
1. Don't buy your books until your professor gives you the okay.
Seriously, don't. The wrong edition could be posted online, or your professor might even drop the book altogether. It's really frustrating, so just wait until classes start. Also, you don't necessarily have to buy it new from the school bookstore. Do a quick Google or Amazon search (look up the ISBN number!!), and you might find it used for much cheaper.
**Quick note: Amazon Prime for Students is a LIFE SAVER. It has saved me loads of money on textbooks and other things.
2. Use RateMyProfessor.com
But don't overuse it, and don't let it scare you too much. Sometimes, you just have to know what you're getting into. Professors with amazing reviews and ratings usually end up being just as they're portrayed online. Same with the horrible ones.
3. Planners are important.
Remember in high school when every student was given an agenda? I truly believe now that they were preparing you for college, where you'll have more homework and more events and meetings to go to then you'd ever think possible.
4. Taking notes is a thing you'll have to do occasionally.
If your professor says you have to take notes, you should probably do it. But if all the notes are on a slideshow or in a handout, feel free to sit back and relax. Just make sure to pay extra attention to those professors who give long lectures and expect you to remember things he says for the test.
5. If you have a laptop, bring it to class — but don't forget paper!
Everyone knows what kind of note taker they are. You either like to write everything down on paper, or you're the type of person that likes to type it out on your laptop. If you're leaning more towards the technology side, you have to find out right away if your professor can accommodate that. Some professors are extremely strict about technology use in class, so it's better to ask before you get comfortable typing your notes out.
6. Bring snacks with you.
Water, too! You will be starving by the end of the day, so it's better to bring a few snacks with you to keep you going. Water is important to keep hydrated too. I'd probably invest in a coffee machine, but that's just me. The more you bring during the day, the more money you'll save!
7. Start making acquaintances in your classes right away.
Who will you call when you miss a class and don't know the assignments? Who will send you the notes when you overslept your alarm? Getting to know your classmates is a huge asset, and they'll probably need you too at some point.
8. Morning classes... you don't have to take those!
You don't need those gross 8 a.m. classes if you don't want them. For me personally, the best time for your first class of the day is between 9:30 a.m. and noon. You need those extra hours in the morning to sleep because, let's be real, going to bed at a reasonable hour is not a thing in college.
9. Comfort is the most important.
I'm going to be honest: I did not always look my very best in class, but I was always comfortable. Sweat pants and leggings are okay. T-shirts are okay. You don't have to wear make-up or do your hair. Just PLEASE brush your teeth. I've gotten through the day without talking to a single person, but most of the time, that's not actually possible.
10. YES, you're allowed to have fun, stay out late the night before class or put off homework till Sunday.
No matter what major you are or what classes you have to take, college isn't all about the grades. At the end of the day, it's about the experience as well. Take the time to go to parties and hang out with people you meet. You can procrastinate every now and then. Skipping class isn't a crime (unless your professor actually takes off points for it). With that said, if you want to graduate college, you still need to study for those hard tests and write those long papers. It's all about balance.
11. You need your parents and your high school friends sometimes.
Well, all the time actually. You're lucky if your hometown is just a drive away. Take every opportunity to go home when you can. Sleep in your own bed, cuddle with your pets and spend time with your family and friends. I found that simply going to coffee or sushi with really good friends from high school made me feel myself again. If they aren't a drive away, phone calls and skype will have to do. Don't take your people for granted; you'll need them no matter what!
12. You will get overwhelmed, and you will feel lost. It's okay.
I don't know anyone who had the perfect college experience. Everyone stumbles. Everyone makes mistakes. You will take on more than you can handle at some point. You just have to learn how to balance everything, and keep on going no matter what.
You can do it!
